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Created by: kthnxbuhbye Original Starting post for this thread:
We met up with another couple that we both really liked and have played with quite a bit . No issue with that at all. The problem is the female of the other couple doesn't seem to want to let my own partner have ANY play time with me ( the male ) . We came over for a play date ( not the first time by any means) , she asked me to go off into another room with her which I did and we played . Afterwards , we go back into the common room to have a cigarette and a drink . I go over to my partner and affectionately kiss her , she had dolled up and looked positively stunning! The female of the other couple grabs me again and off we go to another room again , no problem there . After this happens several times( and yes , both of us had orgasmed each time ) I started playing with my partner again and the woman practically tore me off of her , and started playing with me right in front of my partner. After this went on a couple of more times , I stated I was spent and needed a few to "recharge my batteries" when she grabbed me AGAIN.She also said some things I felt were very inappropriate as I have no interest in any kind of emotional aspect other than with MY partner (Tiger). By the time the evening was over , I was rather sore and hurting in my groin area as I am not a robot . I talked with my girl after we got home and not really sure if we want to go over again and endure another round of this , I feel like we should say something in a tactful manner but we are afraid of hurting their feelings or even worse , causing an argument between them and being the villains. Should we just stop messing with them and chalk this up as a failure or try to talk to her and let her know we are not comfortable with this ? We do really like them as friends . She told us she left her husband for her current fella but something like that will NOT happen with me . They told us they enjoy 1 on 1 while we like different experiences with different couples.Tiger is not just my lover , she is my best friend and has done many great things for me , i would never consider being with anyone else and we do plan on getting married next year , she means that much to me and she knows that. We do enjoy the lifestyle & our wild side but it stops at SEX , not love. It almost seems like it deteriorates a little more each time. We told them our vehicle is broke down and we are not mobile until we can make a decision on the most tactful way to deal with this . There is some truth to this so not exactly fibbing , just not saying everything.Help!

Created by: kthnxbuhbye
Original Starting post for this thread:

We met up with another couple that we both really liked and have played with quite a bit . No issue with that at all. The problem is the female of the other couple doesn't seem to want to let my own partner have ANY play time with me ( the male ) . We came over for a play date ( not the first time by any means) , she asked me to go off into another room with her which I did  and we played . Afterwards , we go back into the common room to have a cigarette and a drink . I go over to my partner and affectionately kiss her , she had dolled up and looked positively stunning! The female of the other couple grabs me again and off we go to another room again , no problem there . After this happens several times( and yes , both of us had orgasmed each time ) I started playing with my partner again and the woman practically tore me off of her , and started playing with me right in front of my partner. After this went on a couple of more times , I stated I was spent and needed a few to "recharge my batteries" when she grabbed me AGAIN.She also said some things I felt were very inappropriate as I have no interest in any kind of emotional aspect other than with MY partner (Tiger). By the time the evening was over , I was rather sore and hurting in my groin area as I am not a robot . I talked with my girl after we got home and not really sure if we want to go over again and endure another round of this , I feel like we should say something in a tactful manner but we are afraid of hurting their feelings or even worse , causing an argument between them and being the villains.    Should we just stop messing with them and chalk this up as a failure or try to talk to her and let her know we are not comfortable with this ? We do really like them as friends . She told us she left her husband for her current fella but something like that will NOT happen with me . They told us they enjoy 1 on 1 while we like different experiences with different couples.Tiger is not just my lover , she is my best friend and has done many great things for me , i would never consider being with anyone else and we do plan on getting married next year , she means that much to me and she knows that. We do enjoy the lifestyle & our wild side but it stops at SEX , not love. It almost seems like it deteriorates a little more each time. We told them our vehicle is broke down and we are not mobile until we can make a decision on the most tactful way to deal with this . There is some truth to this so not exactly fibbing , just not saying everything.Help!

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User Details are only visible to members.	At least when they bring it to the forums you know who to save notes and make sure you dont hook up with them. :)
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	With The Tiger's defense of her fiance I'm going back to my first instinct on this story. The Tiger has no problem with the fiance spending these incredible long and oft repeated sessions with the insatiable playmate so the only obvious reason for the post was to show off how viral The Tiger's fiance is. There was no problem. What a stud!
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	BTW Purple welcome to the forums and a genuine thank you for the compliment. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4448 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If you see no issue with using their profile as a stepping stone to making his ex look bad so you feel better about yourself who am I to tell you differently. I hope it worked and you developed some self esteem. You might ask yourself how you will feel when the next red head comes along , using the same profile , your cert and bashing you. Should there be one of course. Good luck, you'll need it. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4448 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I (Tiger) wrote the profile, if you don't like my honesty well don't bother reading the rest of this!!! As for the cert I just now figured out how to delete it. And as for my comment about his X well truth is truth. It is not conceited, it is what we have been told a great deal! So any grievances pertaining to our profile can be taken up with me!!!!! I don't know why he felt the need to post this I feel that we have a GREAT time with that couple and that the only adjustment that we need to make is to have our alone time away from them and just enjoy the undivided attention when we are there! And maybe bring lubricant so he doesn't get raw!! ;)
Eldorado IL			Username hidden (33 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I didn't ask any questions in my original post. Mrs Sav is dead on with her observation. This nonsense is horribly offense to both redheads.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you.
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4448 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Good post Sav.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It was me who questioned why you felt the need to make the comment about a newer better red head. Also me who questioned your certs. By your own statement you say you've been together for 6 months, note 1 of your 2 certs is OLDER than that meaning it DID in fact belong to the less hot redhead. I still find your comments about your ex distasteful and insulting and believe they say far more about you than anything else you've written about you and your new love. BTW it also makes her look back for allowing you to post such hateful garbage in a context to "compliment" her. In her place I'd question what you'd say of me should the relationship fall by the way side and exactly where you'd deem appropriate to do so. The fact that you and your ex redhead broke up is personal , private business and any discussion of the hows and whys should only be discussed with those who knew you than IF REQUIRED. To use your profile as a sounding board to be insulting toward her is extremely immature , rude and snarky and as I mentioned makes YOU look far worse than anything she could have done. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4448 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You really dont know how to clean up this situation? I really dont see the problem. You tell them that the female is disrespectful and you and your partner are not interested in further meetings and humpings. It's not brain surgery. I dont owe people any reasons but I am polite and usually give them one. If they persist I block them. Its really easy.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

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