Kids found out: Swingers Discussion 126983

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User Details are only visible to members.	Its funny how the "neighbors" or anyone else talking crap about swining ; are usually the types of people who will try to fuck your spouse behind your back..... Thats one thing neither me nor my husband would ever do even though we are in the lifestyle. Peple are just crazy... Why would any adult tell their children, the neigbors are swingers.. blows my mind
Broad Top PA			Username hidden (1956 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Haven't had a problem with the child finding out yet. But did have a co-worker find out. At one time we were looking for a single man and I think he must have had a posting. Being the odd person he is he needed attention at work and started showing people and talking crap. Luckly nothing ever came of it. Some people are just losers and have issues. Update. He switched jobs and still no one likes him at his new job either. lol
Charles City VA			Username hidden (53 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	and yet, you are SOOOOOO liked! Dan says he "likes likes" you.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Oh some neighbors are a trip. Some people think its their business to know what everyone is doing. I'm a bad one for this topic because I'm a live and let live person, if you pay your mortgage and do not participate in illegal activities I don't think its my right or business to say shit..just like all of y'all. Where I differ is I have no problems with people knowing what I do (we do have that luxury because both of our employers know) and know that not all of us have that ability....but its just my nature to tell neighbors to fuck off if they don't like it. I do not worry about being liked LOL.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23645 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Gives me cold chills..
Mc Dermott OH			Username hidden (4 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If these neighbors "suspected" and then did and intense search of swinger sites until they found you......well it seems kind of freakin creepy to me. Someone THAT involved in my activities would trigger my parania alarms.....
Hephzibah GA			Username hidden (120 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Oh and as far as the vanilla neighbor goes.. Since they didnt have this opinion before learning about your activities, I would suggest to them or anyone else, that if its that much of a concern contact the authorites.. So long as the children are cared for in a clean home, never left alone or placed in a situation where they can observe any adult activities.. there is nothing that can or will be done.. Just tell em, either fuck what ya heard.. or is this out of jealousy or concern
Pine Bush NY			Username hidden (28 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	IMHO, its a case where its funny, the neighbor knew where to look for them.. Remember our old tag line about no being outted without the other people outing thmeselves.. Doesnt this apply in this case? You handled it excellently in regards to your daughter, and be prepared to have a few more discussions.. We have 3 kids and our oldest found out about our adult activities, when he was 18.. Because he asked. It turns out one of the mornings we came home, we had two bags with us, and a "item" was left in a viewable location, in the bag.. in a paper bag with the half a bottle of rum, a vibrating toy.. and panties that werent my wifes.. We handled it in much the same way you did, and he was fine with it
Pine Bush NY			Username hidden (28 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Due to leaving a window open and my making a "friend" of ours make some very loud noises, my neighbor across the street is suspicious but other than sly looks in the driveway I don't think she's going to say anything to me or anyone else about it. The street-level view on google earth also just HAPPENED to have caught some friend's car in our driveway and nosey family members have asked who's car it is. I'm not as worried about my kids finding out (which we do our best to avoid but understand it may happen some day) as I am about some idiot like your neighbor who decides to go around broadcasting your private sex life to the world. The only thing that is damaging your kids (by the sounds of things) is being tormented by assholes like this who decide to tell THEM what they think of YOUR sex life - as if it's ANY of their business. As difficult as it might be for your daughter, the best way for her to handle it with these neighbors is to tell them to mind their own business. As for your vanilla friends - well - that's why none of our vanilla friends know. We know for a fact that many of our vanilla friends would become our ex-friends if they know, and a few might even blabber it to anyone who will listen.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11691 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In regard to the general topic, I would not freak out. Yeah, the suburban soccer moms will think you are satan personified...but until they pay your mortgage I would not give a shit. But again, thats me. I suffer from I just don't give a damn what people think syndrome lol...that shit makes me mischevious. I think your child has been raised right and its a non issue...sometimes we turn a small issue into a HUGE issue by trying to not make it an issue. You talked, she understands, and thats it. Live your life. The neighbor? Well again, thats just me. I'll keep that to myself because I would not suggest that others do what I would probably do lol.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23645 post)

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