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TOPIC: Is it possible to spend too much time with one couple, and still play with others

Created by: MikeFr Original Starting post for this thread:
We've found ourselves totally head-over-heels with a great couple, and even though we (both couples) met in the lifestyle (at a party, of course), we have been spending most of our play time together. We communicate well, and we've all discussed the fact that we haven't really had a massive urge to play with others, except for the occasion when we attend a party together, and it seems then, that all are present. This relationship is very special to all of us, and we're wondering if anyone else has been where we are now....... For that matter, I'm sure many couples in the lifestyle end up in an almost "polyamorous" situation, but it doesn't seem like there is a lot of discussion to this point..... Any thoughts?

Created by: MikeFr
Original Starting post for this thread:

We've found ourselves totally head-over-heels with a great couple, and even though we (both couples) met in the lifestyle (at a party, of course), we have been spending most of our play time together. 

We communicate well, and we've all discussed the fact that we haven't really had a massive urge to play with others, except for the occasion when we attend a party together, and it seems then, that all are present.

This relationship is very special to all of us, and we're wondering if anyone else has been where we are now.......

For that matter, I'm sure many couples in the lifestyle end up in an almost "polyamorous" situation, but it doesn't seem like there is a lot of discussion to this point.....

Any thoughts?

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User Details are only visible to members.	I am not sure what is the norm. I found a couple that was totally compatible with my X swing partner and me on one of our first attempts with couples, as a couple. Sadly my partner is no longer part of our equation due to my own personal reasons for leaving him behind, but we were ALL 100% compatible. I will always have my bi-fem couple in my life. Guess we were lucky! Hopefully, whomever I choose to be my next swing partner will fit right in too! RaveN ( :~
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wow, took me awhile but found a thread on it. We have also evolved over a few years within the lifestyle. My wife always wanted to find that special couple, My view was that we shouldn't play with someone exclusivly. I always thought it would lead into Drama situations. Then we met this couple awhile back and recently within two months started playing with them. They are like the perfect fit to a jigsaw puzzle, very friendly, very sexy, have the same morals and standards! We have played with them and only them since the first night. This is all new to us and we have just been taking it day by day. I am still a bit unsure at times, but so far it's working just fine. Course, I do believe that there will be a day when it all stops for whatever reason. Till then we are rolling with it. First time for everything. Loraincpl
Cleveland OH			Username hidden (38 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We think its natural to have one or two couples that you spend more time with then with others. Over time things seem to change such as events in ones life, sex seems to get boring, time constraints, wanting to meet other new exciting people etc.We say enjoy the time your spending well with those that you like to be with.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you all for your responses. I'm glad to hear it's not so odd for this to occur.
Temple Terrace FL			Username hidden (17 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've had several couples with whom we've become especially close and played with far more than others for varying periods of time. We never played EXLUSIVELY with any one couple, but certainly played MOSTLY with one couple during that time. Eventually something changes the dynamic - moving away, family demands, business problems, health issues - you name it. I think it's entirely normal and natural to have times when you find that there is one couple with whom you'd rather play than any other. Go with the flow while it's so good.
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've found ourselves totally head-over-heels with a great couple, and even though we (both couples) met in the lifestyle (at a party, of course), we have been spending most of our play time together. We communicate well, and we've all discussed the fact that we haven't really had a massive urge to play with others, except for the occasion when we attend a party together, and it seems then, that all are present. This relationship is very special to all of us, and we're wondering if anyone else has been where we are now....... For that matter, I'm sure many couples in the lifestyle end up in an almost "polyamorous" situation, but it doesn't seem like there is a lot of discussion to this point..... Any thoughts?
Temple Terrace FL			Username hidden (17 post)

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