Is it me or him: Swingers Discussion 53832

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Is it me or him: Swingers Discussion 53832

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TOPIC: Is it me or him

Created by: xoxo4u Original Starting post for this thread:
We normally swing with the 40's 50's crowd. Several times we have played and the other man couldn't maintain or couldn't get it up. Why don't these guys see a doctor for some insurance Viagra. I have also noticed that when men are hard and putting on a condom, it just seems to make them melt. Come on ladies what are some of your secrets for getting him hard and keeping it there.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Cuming soon, Phil. We can't wait to see you guys again! :-) Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ahhh, to be young. To have 4 or 5 orgasms in a row and be able to ask if she's ready again. But not any more pilgrim. I haven't had any problems at home or swinging with an initial (and sometimes second) erection. However, if we're at a house party and have opportunities for more encounters, I'll usually take 25 to 50 mg of Viagra. After about 30 minutes, I'm really set for a good evening! Either I'm lucky or I've only encountered extraordinarily sexy women :-) (like Mrs. valovers703 ... she's a keeper.) Phil
Bowie MD			Username hidden (85 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have tried viagra when swinging. I can't say whether it makes a difference or not, except maybe mentally. It certainly takes the worry out of being close, though. If you DON'T need it, it may simply provide a placebo effect. But who cares? A man who THINKS he has nothing to worry about is far more likely to perform normally than a man who is WORRIED that he might have trouble with his erection. I never have a problem at home with my own wife. I HAVE had a problem several times over the years when we've been swinging. Almost always it's because I really wasn't excited about the woman, and shouldn't have been in bed with her in the first place (Take One For The Team Syndrome?). There is ONE woman in particular with whom I nearly ALWAYS have erection problems. I did the first two times we got together with that couple, and barely managed to function the 3rd time we tried. I have a mental block with her. So if we're going to play with them, I use the blue pill. And it works, probably simply because I just don't worry about whether or not I'm going to have a problem when with that woman. Do I NEED viagra? Obviously not, because the ol' equipment works as well at home as it ever did, and does most of the time when swinging, too. But once erection problems have happened to a man when swinging, it's devilishly hard to get that bugaboo out of your head, and thus increasingly likely that erection problems will happen again and again. Blue pills can be that "security blanket" that takes the worry away, thus allowing things to function normally, even if you don't have E.D. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I know 20 year olds that have taken Viagra.... just for the fun of it.... it seems all age brackets are takening for need or just for fun.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm on blood pressure meds, my doc prescribed Viagra for me. Works grate!
Ventura CA			Username hidden (17 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OK, Brandon...at age 32, where do you find someone to give you the "Genie" Also, on an earlier post here...it was said that trojans are the worst for sinsation...I have to have an extra-large condom...xl-mag trojan fits...I have yet to find another brand that has the same size...Anybody please give me a suggestion as to what brand to try.
Four Oaks NC			Username hidden (43 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My hubby has a rule....never go out with a loaded weapon. Anyone remember that scene in "Something about Mary"?
Cape Coral FL			Username hidden (56 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Love little blue pills!
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My patience with a nervous first timer paid off. We all really liked each other - and had fun despite the difficulty - and wanted to get together a second time. My slow starter got over his shyness - or whatever it was - and nailed me to the bed ... and floor ... and bed again! Our SO's played, left for refreshments, came back and got started again before we were finished ... and I'm talking about the penetration-portion of the evening. We've had some fun times since then, and they were worth the wait! Mrs. JR
St Thomas VI			Username hidden (1368 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am "gettin old" I had an erection for 25 years. I could come five times but not anymore. But now I come once - and rest. But she enjoys heself and so do I. We are mature take our time and enjoy ourselves. We meet other couples and WE ALL enjoy ourselves have a go to have a nice a nice meal - rest up and go back for more. We take our time no pressure to perform and live out fun fantasies in a pleasant atmosphere - I don't say no one ever loses an erection but as someone said here - a little humor a pleasant group and the man gets "back to work" We stay cool and REALLY enjoy ourselves. Gary
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TOPIC: Is it me or him