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Thanks, all, for the comments. Guess we were just venting our frustrations.

Fredonia NY
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I don't think this is just an issue of being only soft players.

First, there are lots of other soft players on here, and lots of "wild" people who will play soft with new folks, at least for a while.

Second, you can say that you always play soft on the first playdate and mean that honestly, particularly if you had so much fun on the first playdate that you'd be willing to go further.

Third, it's always hard to make schedules fit around the holidays.

Fourth, if it just keeps dragging on, at some point it's a good idea to write it off as never gonna happen and move on. If everyone really wants it to happen, it will.

Kitty Hawk NC
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we have been here for awile also and no meets yet as we are still soft how do we meet the right people

La Crosse WI
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We have been swinging for about 10 years and have that problem, to this day.

Carrie

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We've been members of SLS for a number of years, and we've had some fun playtime with some wonderful friends; and we've had met some really good people, too, with whom we just didn't 'click'.

All of our play has been 'soft' play. We've decided we're ready to make the jump to full swap ("wild" has been added to our profile, and now we can't meet anyone, any more: Schedules just don't work out when we try to meet (One couple we've been trying to meet for nearly three months, but we just can't get all four of us together -- even for an initial meet over coffee -- because of schedule conflicts).

Other times it's picture collectors contacting us. Sometimes it's someone looking to cheat (and we don't play that way). Other times there are people who are just plain old rude.

This has been the situation for .... well, substantially longer than we expected. Is this the 'new normal'? Or is it just us?

Fredonia NY
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