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I completely agree with Mrs. Sav (so what's new?) A guy should always follow the lead of the woman. You (the OP) should also accept some responsibility because it sounds like your wife encouraged or at the very least, didn't dissuade the guy from sexting so he may have felt it was ok.

Whether you decide to meet or not would depend on if you feel you can refrain from beating the crap out of the guy. I sense you have more inappropriate tendencies than the other guy.

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Have you ever told him this is inappropriate, to you? There are people who enjoy sexting, with other couples. They may be one of these couples.

If you have not told him, I think you should. Explain you are not comfortable, with it, especially while she is working. If he stops, that shows he respects boundries and I would still meet them (as long as you have made sure they are a couple). If he doesn't stop, I would not meet them and move on.

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Mrs. Sav is spot on as usual. She ought to consider writing a book of common sense for swingers. We don't share cell numbers until later in the process- Usually immediately before a get to know you meeting and by immediately before I mean on the way to the restaurant.

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Rule #1 Never give your wives phone number out before meeting. We always use his phone number. We've been caught in that same position a few times and I am extremely uncomfortable with that kind of behavior........especially if I am NOT responding nor initiating the sexts. I am not a sexter and resent any man who'd take such liberties without my expressed interest and consent. I think it crosses a line, shows a complete lack of respect and sets too much of an expectation of play upon meeting. If I were you I'd send him a text stating you find his behavior unacceptable and there will be no meeting. Understandably many it seems get off on that type of behavior and enjoy the sexy exchanges and I am not suggesting it isn't ok. What is not ok is to assume that sexting would be appreciated, desired and intriguing. All men should follow the basic rule of following the lead of the women when it comes to graphic conversations and pictures. Unless she is sending graphic photos assume she doesn't want to see yours. Unless she first texts you with explicate dialogue keep your conversation light, friendly and slightly flirty....never cross the line into pornographic conversations unless you are positive the receiver is receptive and desires such. It's a deal breaker for me as I insist a man behave like a gentleman until and only if I start to behave like less than a "lady" . Mrs Sav

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Seems pretty easy to me. I am a single woman and I dont have problems like this even when I was in a couple I didnt have this problem. Its real easy.. Tell him screw you, you blew it and go to the next.

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We'd put a stop to that right away. It sounds like he may be a single with a couple's profile.

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Simply text him back and tell him that his texts are making you uncomfortable and jeopardizing your job and to please not send you any more. It sounds like he is unaware that he is causing any problems since you didn't say anything when he started texting and sexting you. I make a point of telling people upfront that I don't sext unless we've HAD sex and to please refrain from it. It's worked every time.

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I know how I want to deal with it but we need some advice, suggestions, comments on what we should do about this???

A couple contacted us to meet,we exchanger a number of email and phone # to confirm they are a couple. Arranged a meeting date time and place. Everything sounds good so far no red flags, we still have not meet yet. The Mr. of the couple has started to text and sext my Mrs at all different times of the day including at night when she is working NO she was not returning the texts. Remember we still have not meet!!! I think this is inappropriate and crossing a line, my Mrs didn't think it was to bad till last night when he was texting her at work with some very graphic pic and language, that can get her fired in a heart beat.

1.So should I tell him to just cool it till we meet or 2.Tell him fuck you you blew it we don't want to meet any more do not contact us again ever or 3.Call and set up an earlier meet and beet the shit out of him then tell him #2

ya ya I know this is a sex site and we are swingers blah blah blah

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