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I'm with Ms Sav when she says "...shows a complete lack of respect...". The person sending this to her is either A) a SM pretending to be a cpl, or B) a whackjob. In either case, it's time to wave bye-bye to this nut before it escalates into stalking and other unhappy behavior.
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I completely agree with Mrs. Sav (so what's new?) A guy should always follow the lead of the woman. You (the OP) should also accept some responsibility because it sounds like your wife encouraged or at the very least, didn't dissuade the guy from sexting so he may have felt it was ok.
Whether you decide to meet or not would depend on if you feel you can refrain from beating the crap out of the guy. I sense you have more inappropriate tendencies than the other guy. |
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Have you ever told him this is inappropriate, to you? There are people who enjoy sexting, with other couples. They may be one of these couples.
If you have not told him, I think you should. Explain you are not comfortable, with it, especially while she is working. If he stops, that shows he respects boundries and I would still meet them (as long as you have made sure they are a couple). If he doesn't stop, I would not meet them and move on. Carrie |
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Go with #2, you should not give your numbers till you are ready to meet, that includes as in my "lesson learned" responding with a text when told by a married couple that it's so much easier to text than use SLS email.
In reality, its best to use the website email as it affords you some privacy options and the ability to retain your emails if you utilize the option to have them forwarded to your internet based email account, as we do. |
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Mrs. Sav is spot on as usual. She ought to consider writing a book of common sense for swingers. We don't share cell numbers until later in the process- Usually immediately before a get to know you meeting and by immediately before I mean on the way to the restaurant.
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Seems pretty easy to me. I am a single woman and I dont have problems like this even when I was in a couple I didnt have this problem. Its real easy.. Tell him screw you, you blew it and go to the next.
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We'd put a stop to that right away. It sounds like he may be a single with a couple's profile.
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Simply text him back and tell him that his texts are making you uncomfortable and jeopardizing your job and to please not send you any more. It sounds like he is unaware that he is causing any problems since you didn't say anything when he started texting and sexting you. I make a point of telling people upfront that I don't sext unless we've HAD sex and to please refrain from it. It's worked every time.
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