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This is a big NO, NO, I would tell him never to contact you again. We had something like that happen to us and the guy was calling our home phone at all hours. We never met and we will never meet.
It would be cool if you had his wife's number you could call er and see what she thinks about it. |
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Your mistake was giving them your wife's phone number. Never give out info that can be used to harm you. My advice is to tell him that he blew it with your wife, and that you won't meet with them. If he is this familiar before meeting you, just think how intrusive he will be after being with your wife?!
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I would have to say in our situation . That is a big no no the wife and i always chat together and all contact is done together and thats to me is him sneaking around behing your back . i would def tell him dont ever contact us again .
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I'm with Ms Sav when she says "...shows a complete lack of respect...". The person sending this to her is either A) a SM pretending to be a cpl, or B) a whackjob. In either case, it's time to wave bye-bye to this nut before it escalates into stalking and other unhappy behavior.
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I completely agree with Mrs. Sav (so what's new?) A guy should always follow the lead of the woman. You (the OP) should also accept some responsibility because it sounds like your wife encouraged or at the very least, didn't dissuade the guy from sexting so he may have felt it was ok.
Whether you decide to meet or not would depend on if you feel you can refrain from beating the crap out of the guy. I sense you have more inappropriate tendencies than the other guy. |
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Have you ever told him this is inappropriate, to you? There are people who enjoy sexting, with other couples. They may be one of these couples.
If you have not told him, I think you should. Explain you are not comfortable, with it, especially while she is working. If he stops, that shows he respects boundries and I would still meet them (as long as you have made sure they are a couple). If he doesn't stop, I would not meet them and move on. Carrie |
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Go with #2, you should not give your numbers till you are ready to meet, that includes as in my "lesson learned" responding with a text when told by a married couple that it's so much easier to text than use SLS email.
In reality, its best to use the website email as it affords you some privacy options and the ability to retain your emails if you utilize the option to have them forwarded to your internet based email account, as we do. |
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Mrs. Sav is spot on as usual. She ought to consider writing a book of common sense for swingers. We don't share cell numbers until later in the process- Usually immediately before a get to know you meeting and by immediately before I mean on the way to the restaurant.
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