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TOPIC: I Don't Know What Happened!
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I'll bring the rope. I like red wine.
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all comfort levels were discused.
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I haven't read your profile so I am not sure if you state your comfort levels in your profile. If you don't, I would. Also make sure and discuss with the other couple you are playing with, before you play, what your comfort levels are. Then during play, if you get uncomfortable, let everyone know that you need to slow down. Communication is the key.
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Just a note for next time....
There's nothing wrong with saying, "Hey, I'd like to switch back to my guy..." |
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agreed on the emailing I didn't want to over exsplain things i just let them know that i jumped to much when i did that and should have tryed goin slower. I'm sure there has to be people out there that don't always want a full swap but theres not many. But thats something to work on i wanta do full i don't want to make myself uncomfortable doing it. It might take alittle time for me but it is something that i would like to do with no regrets.
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You did the right thing. Always trust your gut feelings.
They may feel similarly to you, in that they may feel a bit strange that they overstepped boundaries too, perhaps a bit of embarrasment. I'm with Shel on the emailing, though, but don't over do that or try to overexplain, as that is just uncomfortable. move on, use this as a learning thing, and keep having fun. Communicate with each other and don't ever do something that makes you feel uncomfortable. Good luck |
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Well we have texted since then but hell, I'm no dummy they probley don't want to get with us anymore. Which is ok. I just went to far too fast it was understandable with my hubby he knew where I was coming from. He says he knew it at soon as I got up. It just was not the right mood or scene for me at that moment. This is still new to me (the couple thing).I told the hubby we'd better take it slow I mean I would love to get comfortable with it because it is something I wanta do its just easier said than done
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Well I think that they are probably wondering what happened, maybe thinking that they offended you. If it were me I would appreciate you sending me an email at least so I did not think that Jay or I did anything wrong. I think that perhaps you moved too fast for your comfort levels. Now you know that you aren't comfortable with that. There is no harm in slowing down a bit, even taking a break if that is what y'all need. Just take things slowly. But I would appreciate an email...they may have not contacted you back because they are waiting to hear from y'all.
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