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How does she feel about the 3-some style encounter? Is it a rule between you that you only play together? If so, that rule shouldn't be broken unless you both agree. We wouldn't make an exception just for this guy, especially for the first encounter.

Second issue: again, what are her feelings here? Would she like to be "his date" for the evening? Maybe it would be best to work it out between the two of you, then let both of them know your plans.
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The risk is more than just one bad night- if he turns out to be a real jerk-weed he might turn your wife off to swinging altogether.

Gotta have the pregame chat with him separately so he gets a feeling for what your Mrs. likes, knows her limits, and will be prepared to help her have a fun time.

Also consider setting up some kind of "this totally sucks" signal with your wife. If she gives the signal then you can help smooth things out or help end the encounter.

Just some ideas-
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TOPIC: I'd like your thoughts about bringing in a new playmate