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TOPIC: Husband lost control in our first couples experience Need advice!
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yea, but that was just a 'part' of her explaining what her real problem was, which included a cluster fuck of issues... I did not think for a moment she was upset that they did not orgasm at the same time or of the timing of anyone's orgasm.
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Sometimes it would be easier if everyone came at the same time, kind:) We had been with a couple and the male half had to mirror everything Dave and his wife were doing, like if they kissed, we kissed, if they did oral, he did oral to me, etc. It was frustrating. it is just more comfortable and less pressure to go at one's own pace. It made me think of a thread from the other week, about what happens when some are finished, and the others are not, what to do. That was a good question, and I think you were the op, kind. I enjoyed the different perspectives of how people cope with that situation.
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The Op says in the OP- " My partner finished well before my husband, who kept going way longer...then I could see her husband getting upset"
That is why I said when full swapping, it is impossible for everyone to finish at the same time. |
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Correct typo- before they leave their own house, they know they have their connection.
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What Sweet and Ak says makes total sense to me. We have always been full swap. When you are with the half of another couple, one will finish first. Simultaneous orgasms with four people would be very difficult. Does that mean the other couple has to stop when the first one is finished? I'd have to say no. As for not forgetting about a spouse, as long as one is secure about their relationship, they have that connection before they leave your house. Otherwise, you will have feelings of jealousy. It is also fine to switch back and forth from one's own spouse to the other half and back- we do it for fun, not to reestablish our connection.
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So what your saying is that you only want to hear opinions that either make you feel better or that are the same as your own.... got it.
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@ AkronFT: Just joined this site to learn more about swinging. Ages & location changed with no photos. If you can figure out who he is, you have super human powers. I just wanted help as a newbie...that's all.
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