How to deal with low confidence: Swingers Discussion 209554101

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TOPIC: How to deal with low confidence

Created by: swmichmilk	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Lots of husbands ask me to hit on their wives so they can learn how not to do it.
San Quentin CA			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You'd be amazed at how many people think like you do or are just looking for an opening to strike up a conversation. We're a very respectful couple and don't believe in inviting ourselves into other's conversations or being touchy-feely with someone we just met, but unfortunately we've had couple misinterpret our being respectful for dis-interest. However, it seems to help if you explain that up front. To overcome our "shyness" we actually made it a point to seek out other wallflowers (like ourselves) just to strike up a conversation. Beleive me, others will appreciate the effort and you'll see how easy it is to meet people.
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (126 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Let your wife go out by herself if you're not up to it.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I read your thoughts, and checked out your profile. I (he) have some thoughts for you. Send me an e-mail if interested, and I'd be happy to share them.
Waterbury VT			Username hidden (13 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If your confidence is not low once you know that someone is interested in you, then perhaps you're just shy. (shy - low confidence?). It is much harder to find playmates if you appear uninterested. It might be as simple as smiling more or being more friendly to someone 'you' may be interested in. Give her a compliment, ask a couple of questions? If they walk away, or say they are not interested, move on and don't let it effect you. If your confidence is very low, I don't this LS is not a great place to involve yourself with, but if it's just matter of social skills, just work on them. Try something new each time you go out. Much luck to you! :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	and....how will you know they are interested if you don't take a chance. What's the worst that can happen? They end up not being interested? It happens all the time and don't take it personally, remember you still have a loving mate who is attracted. I know it's hard to not take it personally, but attractive to one is not attractive to another, don't sweat it. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but to others, I'm a damn fine sweet tea! FWIW
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

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TOPIC: How to deal with low confidence