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Lots of husbands ask me to hit on their wives so they can learn how not to do it.

New Orleans LA
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You'd be amazed at how many people think like you do or are just looking for an opening to strike up a conversation. We're a very respectful couple and don't believe in inviting ourselves into other's conversations or being touchy-feely with someone we just met, but unfortunately we've had couple misinterpret our being respectful for dis-interest. However, it seems to help if you explain that up front. To overcome our "shyness" we actually made it a point to seek out other wallflowers (like ourselves) just to strike up a conversation. Beleive me, others will appreciate the effort and you'll see how easy it is to meet people.

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Let your wife go out by herself if you're not up to it.

White Hse Sta NJ
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I read your thoughts, and checked out your profile. I (he) have some thoughts for you. Send me an e-mail if interested, and I'd be happy to share them.

Waterbury VT
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and....how will you know they are interested if you don't take a chance. What's the worst that can happen? They end up not being interested? It happens all the time and don't take it personally, remember you still have a loving mate who is attracted.

I know it's hard to not take it personally, but attractive to one is not attractive to another, don't sweat it.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but to others, I'm a damn fine sweet tea! FWIW

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