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TOPIC: How to approach people in a swingers club
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AC,

Just try to remember that most other couples are probably as shy as you are and are waiting for another couple to say hello to them!

Steve and Kaitlan

Rowlett TX
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We are new to the lifestyle and just want to get feedback on what is the best way to approach couples/(females) in a club, what are some tips and advice, also what are some things that you should not do when approaching them."

LS couples are like all couples...they are attracted to fun, friendly and smiles. When you have fun, people like being around that. We just have a good time. Other nice ways are offering sincere compliments....we ladies love a gentleman coming up to us and saying something sweet like telling us you think we are pretty, or you like our hair or a tat...things like that. Just have fun. And remember, a smile is very inviting.


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When we see a couple who interests us, we just walk up to them and say "Hey, I bet you'd really like to see these lesions on our genitals, wouldn't you?"

Works like a charm!

Oh, you probably meant if you wanted them to be ATTRACTED to you! My bad!

Jim :-)

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A lot of people don't know this, but each of us were only given a fixed number of "grunts" at birth. You do not want to waste these on things like conversation. You need to save them for when it really matters.

Hope that this helps.

Stay well and stay safe,

Karl

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Monosylabic grunting hasn't worked for me yet.

-M

Colleyville TX
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we usually act like civilized humans and engage in conversation.

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I haven't used it yet, but I will.

-M

Colleyville TX
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"Do you mind if I(we) stare at you up close instead of from across the room?"

Colleyville TX
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Best approach...

"Hi, my name is J____ and this is my wife M____"

Just like everywhere else...if its a LS club or party, they already know why you're there <weg>

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approach them like you would in any other social setting, be yourselves, make conversation so you can get to know each other a little...dont immediately come up to them expecting to jumpp in bed or suggest as much...

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