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TOPIC: How much touching is okay

Created by: jk4fun63 Original Starting post for this thread:
not so much looking for advice, but more just other swingers opinions. when K and i are attending parties, meet & greets or what have you, i rarely ever touch other females in a sexual manner, i.e, ass grabbing, grinding, etc. the only exception might be an occasional pat on the ass with someone we know, and when i say we know them, i mean we have played and its accepted between us as couples. why do you suppose it is that some guys feel like it is appropriate to touch without permission? now i'm not talking about a single or couple we're talking with and getting cozy with. i'm saying if i do not accompany her to the restroom, you can almost guarantee, some asshole is going to help himself to a little ass feel. it doesn't bother me to confront them about it and set things straight. but, does that make me the "uptight guy" considering the environment? i don't think so, but am i wrong?

Created by: jk4fun63
Original Starting post for this thread:

not so much looking for advice, but more just other swingers opinions.  when K and i are attending parties, meet & greets or what have you, i rarely ever touch other females in a sexual manner, i.e, ass grabbing, grinding, etc.  the only exception might be an occasional pat on the ass with someone we know, and when i say we know them, i mean we have played and its accepted between us as couples.  

why do you suppose it is that some guys feel like it is appropriate to touch without permission?  now i'm not talking about a single or couple we're talking with and getting cozy with.  i'm saying if i do not accompany her to the restroom, you can almost guarantee, some asshole is going to help himself to a little ass feel.  it doesn't bother me to confront them about it and set things straight.  but, does that make me the "uptight guy" considering the environment?  i don't think so, but am i wrong?

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User Details are only visible to members.	wow.... old topic. the few parties we have been to (swinger or otherwise) men have always asked for my permission to touch my wife. I prefer it that way.... and I never touch with out permission..... I have no problems asking for permission, but permission should be obtained. She makes it very clear early in the night that touching is not allowed with permission and she points out the guys she wants me to keep away...... of course when women want to touch her that is always acceptable...... we have not had this issue at any party (admitted we have only been to one swinging party, but even at non swinging parties) we have attended everybody has been respectful (prolly because they know all they have to do is ask)
Berrien Sprgs MI			Username hidden (85 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As a grown women I prefer to handle myself and decide for myself what is and what is not offensive. For the most part the men I have encountered have been very respectful. On the odd chance someone crosses a line I do not freak out, do not over react and do not cause a scene, if I should happen to mention it at all to Mr Sav it is so he can get a laugh too ( he knows how sharp my tongue can be ). Do I think it is "right" that someone grabs me , of course not . I find a smack to their ego is far more appropriate than an over reaction. A simple comment like "Are you about done there as I'm kind bored " will make them disappear in a heartbeat and send a very clear message. I myself, as well as Mr Sav have had far more women overstep my boundaries. I've had my dress pulled over my head, my top torn down on the dance floor and had one who decided it would be hot to shove her hand into my panties. I have a harder time dealing with women than men, you never want to piss off a women at a party. Their mouths can be vicious and gossipy and most of them hate rejection. Mix alcohol, with skimpy clothing, a playful environment and someone somewhere is going to "forget" their manners, acceptable no! Expected yes. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4443 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Now THAT'S funny Shit right there.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11413 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I'm too old to step outside" I will help wheeel you out Akron...
Pottstown PA			Username hidden (1375 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Doesn't matter so much if she is offended or not. For a guy to do that to another guys wife is disrespectful to both of them but where I come from, out at a regular bar or on the street, if a guy grabbed my wife he is going to get knocked out without question. Not that a swingers party should be any different, but I would be less likely to cause a major scene there. I would though have words and it would be his choice to apologize or step out side. I can't stand people who think they have the right to grab someone else unwantedly.
Grand Blanc MI			Username hidden (143 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I always ask first, I learned the hard way. Do you know how many times Mrs John has slapped me for grabbing her ass :)
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2092 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I guess it's just me but after reading all of this topic a thought came to mind. Did this guy ever ask his wife if SHE was offended by those touches ? ? ? I'm just saying.
Mansfield OH			Username hidden (49 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	agreed Akron, I think the two of them would make quite the decorative scene...
Pottstown PA			Username hidden (1375 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am with Akron, would much rather have the direct approach. And that is the best looking christmas tree I have seen Akron...
Pottstown PA			Username hidden (1375 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks, Akron! Your lady is hot as always. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16678 post)

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