How many couples are totally in it together: Swingers Discussion 2019021061

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User Details are only visible to members.	Most of the other forum regulars know I post here in the forums as just myself (the guy half) of the couple. And Ive explained that everything else on here we do as a couple only. I dont check or respond to emails or do anything on my own without us both here at the computer. The topic of men posing as couples and fakes and such has come up many times, and I got to thinking. Who here as a couple has both partners that are equally as motivated and interested in this "lifestyle"? I ask this because in my situation its hot and cold. My wife is either really really into it. Or she wants nothing to do with it. By that I dont mean turned off by it, but just knocks it off the "to do" list. So we will come on, spend a night emailing and chatting, and shes all excited.......Then just disappear for a few weeks. We do play.(occasionally) And we never cancel, flake, or no show if we make plans. But it drives me up the wall because someone will email us, she;ll be totally interested, we'll email back. Then it will be 3 weeks before we come back to it. Its sort of a sensitive topic so I make it a point not to push things so I just patiently wait until she gets in the mood again and go for it. I could easily get carried away with this. Its something Im always in the mood for, and would do all the time. Thats why I rant about single guys on here who cancel and flake at the last minute with a BS excuse. Personally, if my wife said she wanted us to have company tonight and I was on my way to a funeral........I would honestly have a hard time deciding which to attend. My wife though is more of an opportunist. If the situation comes up for her or us to play, she is all about it. She likes meeting people in person that we didnt meet online and letting things happen. Shes the type that would hookup from a bar and gets a thrill for that. But when it comes to the online thing. It drives me nuts. I cant figure out how she will be on here or another site, loving the attention, ready to drop everything and get in the shower at midnight to go have some fun. But then for the next month, would rather sit on the couch watching law and order reruns while im sitting next to her thinking "What the fuck happened to the person sitting here last night that was ready to jump everyone in sight?" Again Its why I vent a lot on here about fakes and flakes, and people who make plans then cancel for BS cold feet at the last minute. When that happens, I think "We have 50 more emails in our box, lets go to number 2 or 3 or 10, whatever" But she will just say "theres another online BSer" and its another month before she wants to give someone else a shot. I dont know if I actually asked a question or just ranted my fingers off here. Sorry if I wasted your time reading this mess....lol......I welcome any comments or questions.
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