How many couples are totally in it together: Swingers Discussion 2019021011

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User Details are only visible to members.	Kind of We don't look or set up to meet people separately. But we do sometimes take advantage of chance situations on our own. We're both from the northeast and travel back and forth from there individually from time to time. So i may meet an old friend while im there. Or she goes to different camping events and such without me that sometimes opportunity comes along and she goes with it. All above board, no secrets, and its one of my major turn ons when she comes home with a "story" But as a general rule in "swinger life" no we dont play separately.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yea, I understand that. Shopping for a dishwasher is never fun! Joey, just wondering, do you play separately too?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	She just got back from another trip where she ended up having fun. And at that point I finally laid it out on the table. Im sitting here all the time wondering why we dont play together for a long time but then she goes out and comes back with a story. And it is just what I suspected. Its more exciting to have it "just happen" She is used to having guys pursue her and make a big effort to try to get with her. So its exciting to be hanging out and have the tension build up all night and then explode. Where on here. Its can sometimes be like looking for a new dishwasher. Go through a whole bunch of emails. Chat back and forth. "Plan it out" And with the majority of guys backing out, flaking out, canceling, and just not putting any effort, its not exciting for her. Many times she feels like she has to chase guys here to meet. When in the "outside world" they chase her. Since the real excitement is the feeling she gets that someone "wants her bad" and that's what turns her on. Not a big dick pic, or someone who "might be able to be available" So while we had the rule that "everything is done together" we agreed that Ill take the lead to narrow it down to people who we are likely to meet. Otherwise after 20 emails from people who dont remotely match, or dont read our profile, I can tell she just lost total interest and wants to log off and do something else. And then is in no big hurry to do that again.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	well now, ...praise the Lord! lol... I do think that will help alleviate some of the frustrations you have been having for both of you. Happy to hear you're trying something new. :) Much luck to you!
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Little update. Ive been given the green light to sort emails myself. Since most of it gets the automatic delete for ignoring our profile and such. And I know what she likes and what she doesnt and have a pretty good Idea who she would be attracted to. So while Im not going to start any conversation with people we ARE interested in without her, I can come on more frequently and weed through what I know she wouldnt be interested in. Then we come on together and only have a few to look at and start conversation with. I think this will work better.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Rdy. You wont offend me :). I don't think too many of our potentials read the forums. The complaining I do is really just about respect and telling the truth. It all centers around one thing. We don't carry on and on in our profile about how "busy our lives are"........ but in reality they are. Other than when I sneak on here a little bit as a distraction I'm always working. 5am I'm working. 10pm I'm still working. And my wife is not far off. We have a small business that's growing fast and requires a ton of work to keep it together. So when we make plans it does require some schedule changing on our part. You tell us tomorrow at 8. Today, I'm rescheduling tomorrow evenings estimates. Planning so my wife can get home early to get ready. Preparing my night crew to get started without me. I leave a job at 5:00 fight a nasty rush hour traffic to get home. Shave. Shower. Get ready. My wife is doing the same. And then as we are getting dressed almost running late we get the text. "I got called into work" "something came up" "I'm stuck at work" At that point. Dam right we're pissed. Most times we should have cancelled ourselves with the day we were having but pulled off a miracle to keep our word. That's where the complaining I do on here comes from. Its been going on long before I started writing here. Or when we start chatting with someone that we see online every night for hours and hours.....and he practically begs to meet us.....then when we give the green light all of a sudden he has a crazy work schedule, a life more jammed than the PResident and will have to see when he can make the time. But every single night he is on webcam pulling his dick and wanting to chat about meeting. We don't get anything out of canning, don't want to watch you jerk off, and don't want to talk dirty on yahoo. So again we spend hours on someone that could have been honest from the start and said, "I'm here to cam and cyber" I think overall especially with the younger generations society has changed. I could post the same rants about the responses I get when I place employment ads. With "no jobs out there" I'm actively hiring. Ill get 100 responses to my employment ad and same thing. Either they didn't read the dam thing or they do nothing whatsoever to indicate that they actually want the job. And that's my complaining about emails on here. If you know you are one of many who want this job.......or want to have sex with my wife.....same principle........wouldn't you put a little effort into selling yourself? Ill check my emails for work and get 80% of the responses that didn't follow simple requests and just say " I'd be willing to work...call me" Then switch to our swinger sites and get the same thing "ill fuck her....call me" Both piss me off
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The hot guy who talks about how aggressive and take charge in bed he is and how he will rock her world, is always the one when he shows up who's shy, and like the new kid in school." I agree with this SOOOO much. It goes for more than just single men. Anyone that sits there talking about how their life is the model for everyone else and perfection to the tee.....I dunno. I know that there are people who ARE indeed happy, and that is a beautiful thing. However, when you talk to someone who has done everything you have done, and better...I call bullshit.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hot That's another topic that I always have an opinion on...lol I wish people were just upfront and honest and there isn't too much that would get us mad. The 9 out of 10 single guy flaking thing I always mention. If for God sakes they would just say "it sounded like a great idea when we were chatting and I had my dick in hand, but now that its been a few days, I don't think I'm ready to go through with it just yet" Even if it was last minute. We wouldn't get mad. Ad we would still talk to that person and they would even still have another shot. They respected us to tell us the truth. But instead they text and say "I got called into work" meanwhile they're a waiter at cracker barrel and its 11pm. Yet an hour later they're online. THAT stuff irritates us. If we got into the bedroom with a couple and they were new and changed how they wanted to play......no problem at all......we can understand that.....we're people too. We're experienced with this so it takes away the nervousness meeting people. We still get the anticipation and excitement but not the cold feet. We leave everything as no pressure. And that's a major reason we don't like to cyber or have a lot of sex chat before we meet. Guys build themselves up online and sound like they are ready to show us the time of our lives. They're going to do things to my wife you only read about.....their oral is pornstar quality. They can go for hours.....cum 5 times ....and my wife better take the day off work the next day because she wont be able to walk. The in reality if they do show up.....they sit on the couch, quiet, nervous, waiting for us....then their performance is a mix between a little meek play and my wife working her ass off to keep getting them hard again. Then an hour later they leave...."the clitoralator has left the building" and we're like......"seriously?" Lol. Its now 8:30 and we're in our PJ's watching Seinfeld reruns...ha
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I do not know how many couples are totally in it together but we are . Our preference is playing with couples;however, sometime I (wife) want a threesome. I am the aggressive type person so I am not interested in the guy trying to seduce me etc. I enjoy calling the shots. However, for some reason I find all the guys that want to be the seducer--plz not interested. So, for me I like to weed them out on sls.
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Let's be blunt - frustration can be plentiful in this scene - dudes who go limp - ignored emails - plans that fall apart - people who say full swap then change their minds - people with tight schedules who can only meet 1-3x in a month Oh yeah that's us. We're way newer than all you experts here. But Lost, in her sexiness (youre hot - live it babe) is so right. No one has the answers. Which means everyone gets equally frustrated and discouraged. And the challenges you seem to face I swear we're taking on personally. Given the interest we've seen from a couple of other TN couples, seems we could make a nice trip out of it. And if we weren't traveling for three weeks we'd be asking. Or we'd be curious about the camping in a week. Because there's a big camping event in N Georgia that's pretty wild and we're curious if people on here are attending. But some people don't check their mail so we can't discuss it. Frustration is a two way street :D So, before one of us makes a random but completely poorly planned road trip to middle TN just to prove you wrong, chill, have a rita or a mojito and enjoy the fact you get a lot of attention, you're quite attractive, your wife is smokin', and you have the potential of a sex life few people get to experience. On some they forum right now, some attractive dude is whining to his buddies that his wife hasn't put out in 4 weeks and now he's talking about an affair. Which couple do you want to be? Cheers, J
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