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Both of us were married previously. Both of us had some relationships between marriages. There was nothing we hadn't done before with others before we met.

We still found a kindred partner and loved each other. It didn't matter that we had kissed, fondled, fucked, done anal sex with others before we met. We didn't need "brand new and unused."

I think swinging may be a bit easier to adjust to for those who have been married before than for high school sweethearts who have been "one and only" for each other all their lives.

In the end, what matters is the relationship you have with each other. It's what goes on between your brains, not what goes on with your lips and/or gonads.

Jim

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It's emotional intimacy that matters. If you're holding out physically, trying to same something special our yourselves, then maybe you just don't have the emotional commitment. Just saying....

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Also, we had a similar situation when we first started in the lifestyle. He was upset that I didn't have anything that was just intimate for the 2 of us. Then, poof, we figured out that I shy away from anyone touching my face. I only like it when he touches my face and I hate when other men try to. I didn't notice it but he was right-only he could touch my face! So, maybe you need to find something in your relationship like that. So, even though I kiss-I shy away from men/women touching my face. And he knows it. Like I won't say anything to the person because I'm so in the moment but I do move away from it.

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We kiss almost with all of our partners. We respect the ones who don't. In the end it is your decision and what makes you feel comfortable. However, most true full-swap swingers are kissers.

Joliet IL
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Lost, "cold-blooded fish" is a term I would never have thought to associate with YOU! :-)

Jim

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Ms Rdy, any time. muy caliente!

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A restriction on kissing would be a deal breaker for both of us.

Sex is intimate and kissing is a build up to sex not love. Those things can become part of a loving relationship but that's a choice not a given.

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If I didn't have kissing in my toolbox, I honestly don't know how I'd hook the fish."

I do not know how I feel about being referred to as a cold blooded fish hahahaha....but I agree in regard to kissing. Like you said, I would not know what to do. My game is all in my face and kissing is essential. I am not a words person and I never talk shit, so if I could not kiss I'd be sol haha. Plus, with these lips...I have to be a great kisser lol.

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Si, mr lc! I see you are in the cinco de mayo mood already!

I have always wanted to taste your lips... Muchos besos indeed...

Brunnerville PA
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muchos besos!!

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