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TOPIC: How important is kissing in the lifestyle and do you all do it
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Everyone has to find their own comfort level with everything in the lifestyle. We are very comfortable with kissing.

If I get to meet up with my local FWB this weekend it will go pretty much like this :

Drive up to his house, ring doorbell get let in by him, the second the door closes he will pull me up against his body, one hand going around my waist or to my ass the other grabbing a fist full of my hair pulling my head back so his mouth can descend onto mine ravishing it until my knees are weak and arm is having to hold me up. His lips will leave mine to trail down my neck to the spot he knows drives me wilder but only for a teasing moment until his lips come back to mine for a second long kiss. By the time he breaks off that kiss I usually whisper "lets go upstairs" where we once again start kissing while ripping off what little clothing we have on. We will play in what time we have sometimes only an hour, sometimes all night. Then as I go to leave he will walk me to the door and we will share a few more calm, sated kisses before I walk out the door, with promises to meet again soon.

Is this too intimate? Yes for some people it might be.

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In our experience, there are some that don't kiss but most do...if I were concerned that my wife kissing someone passionately would lead to a serious relationship and trouble in our relationship, I would not be in the LS...having said this, we respect that everyone has their own preferences, there is no right and wrong

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We are not interested in couples with a no kissing rule, whole experience feels to "cold" and mechanical to us without kissing...

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Give me a break Texas...I believe I said "Keep it light" I would leave out the sweet talk and the I love you's and keep it on a FWB level with my playmates. But you can do whatever you want.

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Kp, "I think from my experience, you get into more emotional/intimacy problems with language"

So, no talking then? I could live w/ that from some partners!

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Kissing is the shiznit!! I love it. Well, only if they are good at it.


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what they are discussing is not closer to poly. Poly there are emotions. Seems they want more of a FWB that is more like a booty call.

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We were trying to stay out of the fray but the OP is so off the wall we couldn't resist. Trying to picture a LTR with someone without kissing... Glory hole perhaps? As the female in a couple you can impose any rules you want on a SM if he's willing to sacrifice his dignity. We're not attracted to submissive guys and would not be attracted to anyone that would agree to such nonsense. Swinging in it's truest sense involves multiple partners. Sounds like you're not there yet. What you're describing is probably closer to polyamory. That's not a problem, but you might find more support in the poly forum. As has been said here so well many times, how can you suck a guy's dick, yet not be willing to kiss him? If sucking his dick won't make him fall in love, you have nothing to worry about kissing.

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I like kissing and feel like a sex session without it definitely lacks something important. I think from my experience, you get into more emotional/intimacy problems with language. If you are going to have an ongoing play relationship with one person it is very important to draw the lines with how and what you communicate about. Keep things lighter with your playmate and be careful not to pull the emotions and intimate closeness into it. Always make sure you are sharing those things with your spouse and not going to your playmate with them. It is exposing your intimate thoughts and feelings that brings closeness. You need to make a conscious effort to keep those lines drawn or you will naturally open up the more you know someone and then you are playing with fire.

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I'll echo what others have said: It depends on the guy. If he has no need, desire, or inclination toward developing an emotional relationship or coming between you, kissing will not be a problem. If he's not like that, not kissing won't prevent a problem.

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