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Shell that is why we don't play with people who don't kiss, I know I would forget in the heat of the moment and end up pissing someone off.

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Me too, I love kissing. Its just a part of who I am. Plus, I always flibbin forget and I don't want an upset wife ready to fight and shit lol

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I'll have to admit, I move right along those who aren't into kissing. It definitely adds to the sexual experience. especially during the heat of the moment. And in this LS, there should be a universal understanding that nothing should or would happen because of it. Even with long-term FWB's. I mean I am, and it's a mutual friend thing. End of story. Emotional ties shouldn't be relevant to your play partners, only within the couples to enhance their sex lives. Like others have said, that pertains to polyamory, not swinging, whether your interested or are in fear of it. I, like many, don't understand those within this LS that have a "no kissing" rule. We do EVERYTHING but that? I'm sorry, I thought getting to first base was included. lol

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Kissing is ok if in the heat of the play, but I find not many kiss that great, alot think they do. I am more for the fun quick kisses or passionate ones while in the midst of some hot sweaty screwing.

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We both like to kiss the others we are with but its not a necessity for us. We always go by their rules.

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posted one just for you SB :)

although it is not really a fantasy, it happened lol.

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Everyone has to find their own comfort level with everything in the lifestyle. We are very comfortable with kissing.

If I get to meet up with my local FWB this weekend it will go pretty much like this :

Drive up to his house, ring doorbell get let in by him, the second the door closes he will pull me up against his body, one hand going around my waist or to my ass the other grabbing a fist full of my hair pulling my head back so his mouth can descend onto mine ravishing it until my knees are weak and arm is having to hold me up. His lips will leave mine to trail down my neck to the spot he knows drives me wilder but only for a teasing moment until his lips come back to mine for a second long kiss. By the time he breaks off that kiss I usually whisper "lets go upstairs" where we once again start kissing while ripping off what little clothing we have on. We will play in what time we have sometimes only an hour, sometimes all night. Then as I go to leave he will walk me to the door and we will share a few more calm, sated kisses before I walk out the door, with promises to meet again soon.

Is this too intimate? Yes for some people it might be.

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In our experience, there are some that don't kiss but most do...if I were concerned that my wife kissing someone passionately would lead to a serious relationship and trouble in our relationship, I would not be in the LS...having said this, we respect that everyone has their own preferences, there is no right and wrong

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We are not interested in couples with a no kissing rule, whole experience feels to "cold" and mechanical to us without kissing...

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Give me a break Texas...I believe I said "Keep it light" I would leave out the sweet talk and the I love you's and keep it on a FWB level with my playmates. But you can do whatever you want.

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