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TOPIC: How important is kissing in the lifestyle and do you all do it
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Shana, I'm the opposite... I love kissing, and if he can't make me tingly with a kiss, we're done. BUT the teeth-crashing, biting, etc. sounds just horrible, and that would also have ended the encounter for me. I was astonished the first time someone told me he didn't kiss, but then I found it's not unusual. Whatever works for the individual, right?

And you are on the mark with the hygiene comment!

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Shana here, Im not a giant fan of kissing. Too many people are too rough. My lips and tongue have been bitten or sucked so hard that they hurt for days. Some are over eager and crash their teeth into my teeth. AND if my mouth gets to your mouth and it stinks, is sticky, slimy, or there's a weird tooth issue, I'm done. I'd prefer getting revved up with more groping and grinding. After the festivities begin, I'm much more likely to reciprocate a kiss. As far as the nether regions, same thing... hygiene people. I admit, though, I'm a sexually aggressive female and that may influence my preference as much as fear of the dentist.

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Just as Shakespeare said that the eyes are the window to the soul, so too is kissing the window to how one fucks.

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If I was to meet up with a couple and they said no kissing I would walk away. Now if I found a female that is a great kisser like myself it would be on. Where's kibbles at?


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Kissing is part of foreplay for us. It is what helps create desire and lust. It is a huge turn off if the other couple does not kiss. Of course it is a turn off if one or both have a different style of kissing which is off putting. As my wife once described another woman that kept trying to suck her face off and the other guy was all tongue.

Kissing can be very erotic and sexually charge a flirtation. It just isn't as fun without.

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Kissing is an essential part of sex, why not do it? Some people say it's too intimate and they want to save it for the one they love, but surely fucking is more intimate and if you do that with others (especially if you bareback) why not kiss? Swinging is all about pleasure, so why deny yourself any sexual pleasure, as long as both want to do whatever it is?

However there's an exception with him. She kisses her male and female playmates, he only kisses his female ones. Kissing men doesn't appeal.


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We are not full swingers, yet. My wife is a Hotwife. She demands, and gets, the full treatment: Talk Holding Hands and Talking Hugging and Kissing Kissing and Petting Sex Kissing and Hugging She gets to feel like she's back in high school and it is a truly beautiful thing to watch. Liz is very selective of her Bulls and there is a lot of internet and phone communication conversation. It can get pretty hot. If she can't feel the "vibes" as she puts it, there won't be a meeting. She wants and needs a connection to her Bulls.


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Sweet " i agree with you.

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Kissing is Mr.sleepy most favorite thing to share with the ladies.


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peach my favorite fruit...

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