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TOPIC: How important is kissing in the lifestyle and do you all do it
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Don't need it or want it,, if the others need it fine,, but it doesn't do anything for me.

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NJNY. To clarify, the gentleman's kissing was pleasant enough. There was evidence that he enjoyed it, and he asked that we make plans for Sunday (it was Friday night).

As I recall, the kiss was mutually desired - we'd had a good time and we both leaned in. Usually if I'm attracted to someone and have enjoyed his company, a few kisses and I'm wet, but I felt no spark at all. Initially, I was slightly concerned that it was a health issue, (but put that worry to rest at a later time). It hasn't happened since, thank the stars! I suppose I still think about it and wonder because it was odd to have an attraction turn off like that.

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Like Kevin James, in Hitch.

BT

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ATGB: i'd need a bit more clarification. zero spark during the kisses for you? zero response from the 'nilla guy after the kisses? zero kisses?

zero spark: well, if the kisses were not good, i wouldn't proceed past there. if you had kisses and thought they were good but zip on follow up, well again i'm not aggressive especially in a scenario like you described so that'd be all she wrote. zero kisses? hey, no kiss, nothing else will follow.

good kissing and chemistry doesn't always guarantee a good time -- but, without good kissing, it's pretty much guarrroooonnnnteeeeed not to go any further.

like rabbit and PG, i like the man to lean in, "move" first.

:-)~

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In the lifestyle, you have to kiss some ass to get what you really want. So, yeah, kissing is important.

I'll drop my drawers if anyone needs to practice.

And I mean that in the nicest possible way.

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"If kissing is important to you and this happened in a LS encounter how would you proceed?"

0 kisses? Or 0 response to the kisses?

There would be no proceeding if kisses didn't happen. And I like Rabbit like the guy to move in for the kiss first, UNLESS I'm performing a lap dance on them in which case I will do some almost kisses judge reaction, if he is practically begging me to seal the kiss I will. Which ironically is how the few female to female encounters I have have had have started too lol.

0 response? If kisses left me feeling nothing I'd have to say goodnight.

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Sex without kissing? It's the warm-up, the lead-in, the aperitif - and through-out an encounter kisses inspire, set the tone and direct the action.

I reference kissing several times in my profile, as it's the bellwether of an encounter for me. Short story... A couple of years ago, I met a delightful man on a vanilla site. We exchanged messages, then had a few phone conversations. Both of us were very enthusiastic about meeting and when we did, it was a terrific evening - laughing, flirting, great conversation. Then came the kiss(es) - and ZERO. To this day, it puzzles me.

If kissing is important to you and this happened in a LS encounter how would you proceed? (I've stated I won't play at the time of a first M&G.)

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yes! the "move in" for the kiss--i definitely agree, rabbit.

(fanning self)

anticipatory sigh.

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I like kissing. Soft, rough, deep.... everyone is different so I accept them all. I've only played with one guy who didn't kiss and, while he MORE that made up for it with other talents, I did miss it and I'm glad my Scamp was there to fill that void (and others ;^)

I do prefer the man to move in for that first kiss first. I like to feel seduced and when they cradle the back of my head, put their hands on my face, or pull me to them by my waist/hips it helps add to the seduction and fantasy.

~rabbit~

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I should have said its important to me/us. Me more than us. If people do not like to kiss we are not compatible. This is even stated in our profile, not meanly just if you have a no kissing rule please pass us by. I really like kissing. I don't want to have to remember NOT to kiss during an encounter. Trooper finds it hot to watch me kiss other guys.

The kiss that I referred to a couple of posts down that made me weak in the knees and my panties wet? That was just a pretty quick goodbye sort of kiss. Yes kisses from certain people can effect me that much.

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