How do couples choose their single males: Swingers Discussion 58530

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TOPIC: How do couples choose their single males

Created by: red8x6	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	We look for physical attraction, with a very outgoing personality, and local. Experience is something that we have found to be key! There is no more uncomfortable situation than when the guy has "performance issues!" We think alot of guys say that they are good with MMF threesomes just to be with the female, thinking they can pull it off with another man in the same room or the same bed, and they simply cannot! We also look for a guy who is looking for an ongoing, no strings, mature relationship. He has to be comfortable with us both to make the cut. We are a couple, and simply ask for respect in dealing with us. Single males have been our best meets in doing this. We have never had a no-show (knock on wood! lol), and never had the drama that sometimes goes along with some of the couples we have met. They are what they are, and they know why they are here.
Greenville SC			Username hidden (12 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We much prefere friends to a degree.Often the single guy gets what he wants and near about runs out the door.That leaves me feeling a bit like a call girl.I like to meet for drinks or dinner, then maybe go to a titty bar , flirt, get to know them a bit,,,. Also most times a first time encounter is awkward. So i have found that the second or third play time, when we all know each other a bit and start to know our likes and dislikes, is much more pleasurable.I am not talking any strings attached or anything like that, but it does make a girl feel a little better if the guy at least wants to talk to you again or play another time in the future. Most singles it is a one shot deal and you never hear from them again.Leaves you feeling like there must be something wrong with you,,lol. A&M
Repton AL			Username hidden (80 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We don't want "friends" however we don't want a guy w/o a good personality either. As someone mentioned earlier, a guy who knows he's there to make it special for her and make her absolutely the center of attraction. Some single guys are getting smarter about this knowing that if he makes her happy, good things are bound to come his way. Attraction is of course a must but attitude is more important than size etc.
Kokomo IN			Username hidden (132 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Unfortunately, the guys backing out happens way too often. Just last week, we agreed to meet a guy who is about 1 1/2 housrs away. He was eager to come over, we set up a place, and then he called right before he should have left and said he had just checked mapquest and didn't really want to drive that far......what a loser.
Albany GA			Username hidden (315 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	red , can understand what your asking for.Its tough hell I have been married 25 years this october, there are times I have no clue what she is wanting. We look for a person that will be attentive, that she will become their object of desire.Most of those we have met only want theirs. You can also see it in their pics. Meaning you see the female always servicing the single male in their pictures. It should be the other way around.Big cocks are not always what they seem, usually they are into letting the woman do all that needs to be done. Treat the lady as queen on the pedalstool this will go a long ways toward becomnign solid with another couple.Alays include the male in conversations and in the play time.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We like friends with benefits. Personality is a must and must be able to carry on a conversation. Because our lives are complicated, we prefer guys who have "uncomplicated" lives who can meet when we can. We like ones who show up, rather than just getting off on being invited.
Albany GA			Username hidden (315 post)

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TOPIC: How do couples choose their single males