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Personally, we'd rather go to a bare-assed party!

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wtnblk./there is a thread that is being thrown al over the place as someone posted a big assed party......... sorry did think the humor would have been caught

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Check the other forums whtnblk and you will understand.

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I would think twice of not saying you have a big assed party

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First, decide whether you want a large party (a dozen or more couples) or a small one (3-4 couples in addition to yourselves). Then, especially if you are new at hosting, carefully select the couples you invite. Remember, you need to invite about twice as many couples as you really want, because on average half of them will decline, cancel in the last few days before the party, or just fail to show up.

Choose your guests carefully. Ideally, they should all be friends of yours whom you have already met and that you feel confident will behave themselves courteously and appropriately. If you permit invited guests to bring other couple with them, you are inviting problems unless you are clear with your friends in advance about what kind of people you want to be there and what kind you don't.

At all house parties we've attended, the master bedroom serves as a "group room." The door stays open, and you expect 2 or more couples on the bed and perhaps more couples on the floor (extra mattresses or pads on the floor are nice). If the door to a room is shut, that means "do not enter." If the door is slightly ajar, that means "you may watch but don't disturbu us." If the door is wide open, it means "y'all come join us!"

Try to arrange low lighting in each room - enough to see but dim enough to be conducive to self-conscious people being naked together. Put a bowl of condoms in each bedroom, and some wash cloths or Handi-wipes for cleanup duty, and a basket to thrown them in when finished.

Try to pick a good supply of slow dance tunes to play on the stereo. Slow dancing up close in dim lighting is a great way to get people in the mood.

If a lot of couples don't know each other, try making up dance cards for each of the men with the names of all the women except their own spouse or significant other. Ask that each man dance one dance with each woman on his dance card before the playing begins. It's a great way to get to know if you're interested in someone.

Make sure all guests are reminded that "no means no." You can gently do this in the invitation. If you are OK with nudity and/or sex acts in any room of the house, say so. If not, say so. You don't want your new, expensive couch ruined by some squirting woman or covered in semen.

When we have hosted parties, we find that we actually play LESS than if we are guests at someone else's party. In fact, we have actually not played at all at our own parties, because we make the extra effort to keep things moving, to introduce people to each other, to see that the mixers and ice are kept in good supply, the hors d'oeuvres & desserts table is kept stocked, and to keep a sharp eye out for someone whose feelings are hurt or who is just really shy. We make an extra effort to get them involved or to spend time with them ourselves.

We always provide the mixers & ice and soft drinks, and request that people who want something else to drink bring their own beverage of choice with them. We also invite people to bring an hors d'oeuvre or dessert to share, sufficient to provide 4-6 servings. If everyone brings more than that, you'll have more food than you can possibly use.

If you have a hot tub or swimming pool that are secluded enough for your guests to get naked in, ask them to bring their own towels if they plan to use the tub or pool.

Have fun!

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