Guy wants a surprise meeting for his wife: Swingers Discussion 115203

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TOPIC: Guy wants a surprise meeting for his wife

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User Details are only visible to members.	Sounds like he is trying to trick her into the lifestyle....doesn't sound like a good idea to me.
Northwood OH			Username hidden (46 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We agree on everything that is said.. there is a "couple" local here that the guys wants to do the same thing..wanted to meet us.. an not tell his wife how he met us.. we both about cried we laughed so hard.. we could see it wouldnt be pretty when she found out.. an my wife is way honest.. an would have told the others wife.. where we met.. lol.. So stay away from this kinda meet up.. if he cant be honest enough to tell his wife..or talk to his wife.. it will only go down hill..
Tampa FL			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Stay away from these invites. It normally only leads to unwanted drama. There are tons and tons of situations where the guy is pressuring the girl to get involved in swinging. A situation where the guy wants to set a meeting up and then later mention that you two are swingers is a sure way to make her feel pressured or tricked. For couples that can't agree to get started in this lifestyle (adventure) then surprise meetings is not the way to go. If he wants her to try and get comfortable he needs to work on communication with his wife and see if perhaps she will chat online or one the phone with people or check out the forums and then see how she feels about the subject.
Charles City VA			Username hidden (53 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have seen this often and several times then seen how things finally turned out for the couple involved -- long term. Actually we see this request as someone who cannot or will not communicate with their spouse trying to get someone else to do the work and show the fun potential. Less risk for the spouse who desires the fun -- cowardly and a bit unmanly in men I am afraid. Circumstances can be such that some examples are not so bad as others. To us, this indicates that the communication dynamic of the couple is very low, and at least one of the couple has sneaky, evasive or otherwise bad habits. It doesn't have to be that way, but it is most often. As a personality trait it speaks to what else the man/woman will expect to have done for them. We have incredible stories that could start with that line....
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Run, do not walk to the first available exit!!!
Merced CA			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Successsful swinging is all about honesty and communication. This sort of thing is neither. We had the same sort of situation just a few wks ago, where he'd wanted us to help him get her into swinging after he'd raised the issue and she'd shot him down. We told him that we'd continue communicating with him when we heard from Her that it was ok. Bad MoJo.
Fairview Heights IL			Username hidden (635 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with everyone else, this could backfire and turn out very bad. As a single guy this type of situation has been presented to me a few times and i've respectfully declined every time. Some surprises can be good but this isn't one of them!
Port Saint Lucie FL			Username hidden (77 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lookn41morelady- There is nothing uncommon about this, but my experience is that it is not a good idea. It usually involves a misunderstanding of expectations between the other couple, which, when it develops into a disagreement between themselves, is blamed upon the other couple or man. It is a breeding ground from drama and should be avoided.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (856 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We recently got an email from a guy that seemed to be hinting and having us seduce his wife into the lifestyle. Their profile very much seemed the same... like he can't bring it up but would like to set up a situation where something just happens... Ummm.. no thanks. Not even close. We want no part of anything like that.
Glendale AZ			Username hidden (118 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I seem to be in the same boat as that guy. I am not a nut or a crazy and he probably is not also. My story is i have been hinting and hinting, with xxxvideos, toys, erotic letters from the internet and did i say hinting? this has been going on for a while and she gets hot as helll when we read and watch the videos as welll as play with toys i cant bring up the subject because we have 5 kids and have been happy for 24 years. after all this time i feel if the subject was brought up by me she may fell im tired of her and am looking elesewear. i am not at all but if some couple that we became frieendly with were able to bring it up in conversation then there is something i can bring up to here while we are playing. i would never do this by myself if that were the case i could go to a bar. just need the help with bringing it up for conversation. so i dont think that guy was wrong. im praying thanks
Mineola NY			Username hidden (9 post)

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