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TOPIC: Getting things started
Created by: dressup4yu69
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hi,

Anyone have any advice for getting couples to make that move from the talking stage to the bed room stage?

Getting girls to play with girls?

Other than the obvious get "game".

thanks--J&N

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Making out works too (if you're a kisser).

-M

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I love that shift in the energy in a room when someone "breaks the ice" like that.

New Market MD
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We have also found that sexy music that isn't too loud and dimmed lighting in the play area can help. For example we hang out a bit in the dining room/kitchen for drinks and to chat but the large sextional sofa in the family play room is lit around the top of the room with a good strand of white christmas lights.

It gives a nice, sexy glow to the fun zone and when we start stepping in that direction.. its pretty clear why.. and people follow ;-)

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I have been called an instigator on quite a few occasions. I can even bring out the best in vanillas.

Carrie

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That transition can be tough, nobody wants to be first to go there for seeming over-anxious or something. So we try to make it fun and easy.

We have played strip darts.. a bull or triple gets something.

We have even done strip Wii... on bowling a spare or strike gets something. And if you thought watching people play Wii could be fun and humorous, just wait till you see 'em do it naked. It really removed inhibitions.

Also, pulling out the massage table works great. People enjoy the visuals and fun of giving and receiving. It doesn't take long for the clothes to be long gone and the erotic massage to start.

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Strip poker or men blindfold the women and let it go from there.

Rockaway NJ
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We have a few different games that we will play with new couples. That is if we are at home or their place. If we are at a club it is totally different. We have Intimate Dares which is a card game, Foreplay Dice, 4Play a computer game, Pimps and Hoes, and Who is the Biggest Pervert. Which one we play all depends on the people involved and how many there are.

Niles MI
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ok octane,

next get together 1st thing:

Hey everybody, "Clothes off!"

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There was one couple with which we had an unplanned spontaneous session of strip poker (they weren't swingers). Everyone was naked after the strip poker, and even though the women had been all over each other, they were reluctant to take the next step.

So, I took p to the living room floor and starting going down on her and said "If you want to join, feel free." They watched for, like, a minute before the other woman asked if she could switch in.

If they weren't comfortable, then they could have watched, or they could have gotten dressed, or what have you. No pressure, but ample opportunity to join was offered.

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lol!

Does "just take your clothes off" really work?

Strip poker is good, I was thinking for new couples.

thanks--J&N

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TOPIC: Getting things started