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User Details are only visible to members.	finding us is very small, and the chance of them getting back to us within 100 years is infinitesimal. -------------------- Bwah ha ha...sometimes it seems like it! LOL
Amherst OH			Username hidden (2271 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	For perspective, consider this analogy: As vast as the universe is, we can suppose there is intelligent life out there somewhere. To find it, we locate likely solar systems and beam some messages that way. We also put out signals in random directions. The chance of some other advanced species finding us is very small, and the chance of them getting back to us within 100 years is infinitesimal. Compared to that, meeting fun swingers in swingland is not all that taxing!
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2787 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Luvsalot, in the two examples you describe, you gave out your phone # and that was the last you heard from them? Read around the forums, and you'll notice that experienced folks generally do not give out their phone# until after they've met you, or it's really imminent. That's been our experience, too. People who are quick to give out their number may be seen as rash, pushy, or even desperate. And while the optimism you feel on your end of the communication is surely genuine, those on the other end might be pretty jaded. You certainly can't pin your hopes on one or two possible connections. That's a sure recipe for disappointment and frustration. Keeping plenty of irons in the fire, you just have to keep track of them all. It's a juggling act, and you figure out how best to deal with it.
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2787 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	well if someone emailed us and was interested I generally figure it will be several weeks before we can manage to get together. We have kids so there is the arranging a sitter, working around football games, commitments for the kids for school, scouts, etc. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13962 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	welcome to the forums Luvsalot. As BT said it takes time and this time of the year is hard. We actually put that we are on break because with all the holiday stuff we just aren't going to find the time to meet new people. We were lucky and met a very nice SM when we had only been on site for a couple of weeks. Couples? not until several months later when we joined a local swing club. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13962 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It takes time. As they say, Rome wasn't built in a day. This time of year, you're competing with holiday season, visiting family, year end work commitments...all kinds of things. Like it or not, life gets in the way sometimes. Even for the lowly single guy, an interesting email exchange may take a few months or more to become a face to face meeting. Even then, for me, that often means a cocktail vs. jumping in with both feet. There are a number of active posters from your area in the forums. You may want to reach out in email and seek advice specific to the scene in Memphis. Take a deep breath and don't let frustration rule the day. Oh, and have fun. Not just when you meet people...Have it while you're on the journey, too. BT
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