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TOPIC: Foreplay tips for men
Created by: saxybillandthemusician
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We've met some really nice people in the past 10 months on SLS. However, we have found that there are a surprising number of men here that have apparently spent more time perfecting their golf swing, than learning how to best pleasure their lady! Hence, a few basic suggestions:;

1) It's GOOD for men to make noise, and be verbal with their partners, in and out of bed.<br /> <br /> 2) When doing 69 with a lady, it is highly recommended to use one's hands to caress all the rest of her.<br /> <br /> 3) Side to side motions are not the best way to pet a woman's G spot. Use lots of lube. start by gently inserting your second finger straight in. Don't just ram in and out. When your finger is in all the way, curl it so your fingertip is pressing against her G spot, then pull it slowly out almost all the way, in a curled "come here" movement. Then straight gently back in, curved back out, again and again. After a while, PAYING CLOSE ATTENTION TO HER RESPONSES, add your ring finger to the mix, again slowly at first, then gradually more firmly. As her passion rises, you'll feel her vaginal tissues engorging with blood, and her "female prostate" (G spot) filling with ejaculate.This was the point at which one of our guy friends was saying there was no room in Janet. The "room" is there; it has just become a potential space, against which your fingers now and your cock later can press, most delightfully! Janet never gave birth, and has done her Kegels religiously for decades. She was never stretched, and her vaginal muscles are very well toned. Therefor, when excited she has what we Southsiders call "a snappin' turtle pussy", lol. Trust me: Once you adapt to it, this is a WONDERFUL thing!<br /> <br /> 4) THE WONDERFUL WIGGLE So: Your lady's kitty is getting hot, wet and tight. Her G spot and vaginal muscles are pressing on your fingers. This is where you transition from sliding your fingers straight in and curved out. Now you gently but firmly press them deeply in, touching her G spot, and begin to wiggle them both, back and forth, about a half inch in each direction, gradually picking up speed and gentle intensity. This is what Janet calls "tapping". Keep this "wonderful wiggle" going for a while, and you will have a sexy, satisfied squirter on your hands. Literally...<br /> <br /> 5) Last, but not least: KEGELS!!! Most women now know how important Kegel execises are, but most men still don't have a clue. They are VERY helpful in building and maintaining an erection, and also very useful in preventing premature ejaculation. Regular " pelvic floor isometrics" will also greatly increase intensity of orgasm, for both genders.<br /> <br /> <br /> we hope these tips prove helpful, and we wish you all the best in your SLS adventures, and life in general.;

To your health and bliss!;

Bill :)

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We've met some really nice people in the past 10 months on SLS. However, we have found that there are a surprising number of men here that have apparently spent more time perfecting their golf swing, than learning how to best pleasure their lady! Hence, a few basic suggestions:

1) It's GOOD for men to make noise, and be verbal with their partners, in and out of bed.<br /> <br /> 2) When doing 69 with a lady, it is highly recommended to use one's hands to caress all the rest of her.<br /> <br /> 3) Side to side motions are not the best way to pet a woman's G spot. Use lots of lube. start by gently inserting your second finger straight in. Don't just ram in and out. When your finger is in all the way, curl it so your fingertip is pressing against her G spot, then pull it slowly out almost all the way, in a curled "come here" movement. Then straight gently back in, curved back out, again and again. After a while, PAYING CLOSE ATTENTION TO HER RESPONSES, add your ring finger to the mix, again slowly at first, then gradually more firmly. As her passion rises, you'll feel her vaginal tissues engorging with blood, and her "female prostate" (G spot) filling with ejaculate.This was the point at which one of our guy friends was saying there was no room in Janet. The "room" is there; it has just become a potential space, against which your fingers now and your cock later can press, most delightfully! Janet never gave birth, and has done her Kegels religiously for decades. She was never stretched, and her vaginal muscles are very well toned. Therefor, when excited she has what we Southsiders call "a snappin' turtle pussy", lol. Trust me: Once you adapt to it, this is a WONDERFUL thing!<br /> <br /> 4) THE WONDERFUL WIGGLE So: Your lady's kitty is getting hot, wet and tight. Her G spot and vaginal muscles are pressing on your fingers. This is where you transition from sliding your fingers straight in and curved out. Now you gently but firmly press them deeply in, touching her G spot, and begin to wiggle them both, back and forth, about a half inch in each direction, gradually picking up speed and gentle intensity. This is what Janet calls "tapping". Keep this "wonderful wiggle" going for a while, and you will have a sexy, satisfied squirter on your hands. Literally...<br /> <br /> 5) Last, but not least: KEGELS!!! Most women now know how important Kegel execises are, but most men still don't have a clue. They are VERY helpful in building and maintaining an erection, and also very useful in preventing premature ejaculation. Regular " pelvic floor isometrics" will also greatly increase intensity of orgasm, for both genders.<br /> <br /> <br /> we hope these tips prove helpful, and we wish you all the best in your SLS adventures, and life in general.

To your health and bliss!

Bill :)

Antioch IL
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