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TOPIC: Flakes_Flakes_Flakes
Created by: funsocalcpl1970
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My wife and I live by a simple rule. Be nice and treat people the way we want to be treated. if we say we will be there, we will (full disclosure we missed one party we signed up for but that's about it). We would never in a million years make plans with someone and then just flake out. At the very least we would let someone know if we couldn't make it and the reason why. People, for the love of all that is good, be considerate. Don't waste anyone's time and don't play games. Communication is critical. Off my soap box, I now return you to Sunday morning, already in progress.

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Shh! You'll queer the deal! LOL!

BT

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@ Tempennewbies BT really???? Lmao

Charlie

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Tempe,

Thank you. I truly believe that a lot of this is about mindset, and a mindset of abundance and common sense always wins out over one of scarcity and its related stupidity.

Oh, and for the record, given the opportunity, I have a very indecent attitude.

BT

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Just an aside, but bridgetender appears to be the kind of quality single dude every couple appreciates in the LS. Good responses and a decent attitude. Kudos.

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Mrs LT ,

Thank You for your kind words , and i would get my wife a warm washcloth and help her clean up . 35 years of marriage and the little things make a big difference i have found . Much happiness to you . Dave & Trish

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xyz, that guy was a douche! I won't ask the age question. I like all of BT's rules. "Cleaning up" is really appreciated when it's a warm washcloth. I've always remembered the men who did that. Don't underestimate details. As for your lady's outfit, I'd have a go to meetngreet outfit and save the good stuff for a real date. It sounds like y'all have your hands full ask home. Sorry you had to deal with an asshat. Mrs. LT

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@ xyz: just FYI, both of my certs were received some time after the dates that inspired them: in one case weeks later, in the other case months later. so....while the timing of the single guy's cert is really questionable, it is within the realm of possibility that it's just a case of really bad timing.

on the other hand, i schedule dates infrequently enough that if someone were to cancel on me at the last minute, i would *not* be inclined to schedule another.

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Thats why we like meeting new people at clubs and parties. In case a couple or single flakes out, we can still have fun in a swingers environmnet.

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That's crappy AND stupid. I'm sorry that happened, but I'll bet he'll circle back around and give you an opportunity to reply to him as you'd like.

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I agree but the single guy allowed the other younger couple to post a certification on the same day we were to meet , so it is my guess this vermin would not get another chance . As we say in the swinging world he had a better offer , no worries life goes on i was posting to say something about the way it is . I have more stories to tell but i do not want to bore people , you guys have the same thing as well .

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