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TOPIC: First Time Gitters
Created by: Freaks4All
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This will be my first time swinging... my husband and I have found a couple we are both interested in and is willing to meet us. I am VERY nervous, I have been teetering back and forth with doing it and I feel like I am finally ready. I have had a three some with my husband and a friend of his... but I feel this time it will be different... Is there any advise out there for me on etiquette or how it works.... Thanks Nervous

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Personally, I still get butterflies in my stomach every time we go meet a new female or couple. I have always been afraid to approach women on my own (yes, I am shy as hell in real life). Just relax and be yourself as others have said. We have been swinging for 4 years now and I still get that way every time. It passes after we sit down and start talking, but just the anticipation of the meeting does it for me. Zo.

Fort Worth TX
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Be sure and let the couple know of your boundaries and also find out what the couple's boundaries are. Don't be afraid to ask questions. The key thing is communication.

Carrie

Corpus Christi TX
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Freaks, I know how you feel We are slowly getting into the "swing" of things...LOL I am really nervous about it. We have only had threesomes with females I am worried I might do something wrong Good luck to you.

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This will be my first time swinging... my husband and I have found a couple we are both interested in and is willing to meet us. I am VERY nervous, I have been teetering back and forth with doing it and I feel like I am finally ready. I have had a three some with my husband and a friend of his... but I feel this time it will be different... Is there any advise out there for me on etiquette or how it works.... Thanks Nervous

Alpharetta GA
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TOPIC: First Time Gitters