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Jack,

You're certainly entitled to determine what need you have or don't have for privacy, but you come close to saying that your way is right and that wanting any more privacy is wrong.

Sometimes people feel compelled in the face of opinions like yours to justify why they need more privacy. But there is no need to justify it. If you want privacy, you're entitled to it.

However, when you say this, I think it's not helpful:

"Further, since they're on SLS too, they have just as much to lose as anyone else by being outing others."

No, they don't. There are people who don't have anything at all to lose. Among those are the nut cases and the journalists (some might argue these are in the same category). Then there are others who are oblivious to the consequences of outing others, and by not knowing them, act as if there were no consequences. And then there are the people who will do anything to hurt people they envy, regardless of the consequences.

So I ask respectfully that you stop making that argument. I've seen some very ugly things happen to good people whose private lives should have been kept private, but weren't, thanks to malicious or naïve people.

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VABeach...I don't understand why the cpl that you cited would block her brother & Sis-in-law. If we discovered my wife's brother and his wife on SLS, it'd be funny as heck and we'd be sure to say hello, not hide from them. Obviously, if they're on SLS, then they're here for the same reasons as everyone else. Finding that vanilla friends, co-workers, and family members have similar tastes and proclivities shouldn't be a shocker. If they didn't, they wouldn't be friends or family, would they? In their shoes, I'd unblock them, explain why they were blocked with an apology, and just laugh it off together. It's not that big of a deal. Further, since they're on SLS too, they have just as much to lose as anyone else by being outing others.


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Apparently a Sportsman's Double is frowned upon...

:-)

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We know a couple who got an email from a couple, they responded a little encouraged.. .and then they opened their pics, and it was her brother and his wife.

She quickly blocked them and that was that. If somehow they run into them at an event, they'll deal with it then.

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One of the ladies we met told us she went to a swing club and met her mother there in various compromising positions. It was all a good laugh apparently after the embarrassment wore off.

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TB I learned that last weekend. Looking at an event list, we saw a profile (SM) we hadn't seen before. Clicking on it, we found we were blocked. That profile does not show up on our blocked list though.

The profile picture was of him on a pretty cool bike. We wanted to take a closer look at the bike.

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Can you see people you've blocked on an event's attendance list?

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I think if I found my kid here first I would make sure I didnt have a pic I wouldnt want my child to see for my profile pic, maybe just me... and then I would block thier profile so they didnt see my posts and such and I would make sure to check the guest lists of any events I planned to attend.

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People run into people they know all the time. There are others here who have come across their children, parents, siblings, coworkers, etc. We’ve both run into people we know- several times. Everyone needs to handle their situation differently. But...

I looked at your profile. It says you are straight, yet you indicate a high interest level in couples and females. Then you indicate a zero interest level in males. Yes, I read that you will contact SMs if you are interested. Why the high interest in women if you are straight?

You also state you “love forbidden/taboo”. You do understand that your profile, along with your post here would raise a red flag for some people don’t you?

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I've heard of that happening, and have talked with others who have found their neighbors/kids/co-workers/etc at a LS event. We were at a club event a while back where two sisters and their husbands were both new, but neither knew of the other, 'til the new members were introduced to the group. ROFLMAO! It was "OMG!!" time at first, but they spent the rest of the evening sitting around the same table chatting. We know of one guy who found his secretary at a LS event. If we found our son and D-in-law at a LS function, we'd probably just say hello and move on, trying not to embarrass them by making a big deal out of it. It's not unheard of to run into siblings, parents, or children.


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