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TOPIC: Dance etiquette

Created by: makinwaves	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you seduction. Your response echoes what I was getting at below...though far more gracefully.
Southampton PA			Username hidden (30 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	people really do this? try to cut in on a dancing couple???? good grief how rude. Glad I have never had that happen. Of course the way I dance you would need a crowbar to get between me and my partner anyway lol.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13962 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Those looks come with a bit of confidence in yourself. The more confident you are in yourself, the better you are able to manuever through any situations without drama.
Murfreesboro TN			Username hidden (1009 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sometimes it is good to know how to give the "WTF are you stupid look to someone" and make sure they see it and know it. They will usually get self concious enough and move on. If that look doesnt work, learn the "smack down look" and make sure the other person see's it. And if those two fail, just be assertive and keep the one you are with to yourself. You can always wedge yourself back in and move about, letting them know you are in charge of the situation and not them.
Murfreesboro TN			Username hidden (1009 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Trying to jump in is one thing and is OK (unless you are not taking the hint to get lost). Trying to shove out is another and is never OK. I wouldn't let anyone shove my wife out. If another woman joined in and my wife felt like wandering off then she actually can use that as a reason to go get a drink or something without abandoning me on the dance floor.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Another gemini in VA? woo hooo
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Dear "Makin'" Pardon my elephant like memory, but this is the second time that you have posted about how someone has crossed the line with your partner and you are not sure how to deal with it. Clearly, the 2 of you need to take a deep breath and have a long and thoughtful conversation about your expectations in (and out) of the lifestyle. Whatever we do as a couple, we do it together. I could walk away from the lifestyle today if anything I did made her uncomfortable. I know who the most important person in my life is, and her happiness is my #1 priority. In a lifestyle setting, I am doubly sure to be attentive to my wife's response. In a vanilla setting it is very easy to understand that "cheating" can be defined as "anything I wouldn't do if she was standing right next to me". Despite the blurred lines in a lifestyle setting he needs to understand that your comfort should be the first item on his agenda. Your fiance' needs to have the maturity and understanding of the importance of your primary relationship and keep it in mind if the 2 of you decide to include others in your play. Off my soapbox...
Southampton PA			Username hidden (30 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hahaha. I KNEW there was a reason why I liked you so much Jim!!
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23612 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"again though, I'm a Gemini. Maybe that makes a difference." I'm a Gemini too. I like myself anyway. Fact is, Gemini time is nature's prime time for mammalian births. Jim :-) "I am not schizophrenic, and neither am I!"
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	makin, you do not have to make waves and you are right about not starting drama....but sometimes we need "reminders".....again though, I'm a Gemini. Maybe that makes a difference.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23612 post)

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TOPIC: Dance etiquette