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Common Courtesy Sometimes I wonder if some People have even heard of it? I have noticed thought that in the Lifestyle its more common that People remember what Courtesy is. More than people outside of the Lifestyle. I agree though it almost as extinct. But not like the Dodo, More like the Dinosaurs. But we cant give up Hope. Or it will be Gone.
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We always try to send a response even if it is the canned response. It is nice to get one in return. As has beed said before, common courtesy (offline and online) is going the way of the Dodo bird, heard of but never to be seen again.
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We'd rather get a "where have you been all our lives? Let's fuck!" LOL
South Riding VA
 
 
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These days, common courtesy is like common sense. Both are extremely RARE!!!!!
South Riding VA
 
 
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I would rather get a reply back.At least you know they got your message ,and to not message them anymore
Derry PA
 
 
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For some reason we too find it easier to get no responses (as opposed to "no" responses). In fact, we often tell people that it's ok not to respond if they aren't interested. Maybe the main reason we do this is because, generally speaking, it's uncomfortable to have to tell somebody that you aren't interested in them (and that's why most people don't reply). On the other hand, completely ignoring a person who is expecting a reply is also uncomfortable. So we tell people we contact that not replying if fine with us. Hopefully this way we are causing no discomfort whatsoever (at least that's the intent).
Pittsburgh PA
 
 
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we must be oddballs, because we actually prefer being ignored to getting a "not interested" response. Maybe we just have a thin skin, but those responses feel like they're saying they don't find us attractive. Personally I'd rather no response at all-odds are that we'll forget we ever initiated contact with them and no harm done to our lil' egos...lol. I guess it's a to-each-his-own kinda thing.
Denham Springs LA
 
 
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Your welcome,You remind me of a lady i met a few years ago at a swingers club in WV but i know its not you.
Derry PA
 
 
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i do have to thank EANDPOFPGH for writing back to me even if they did take my message the wrong way
Derry PA
 
 
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Heh heh.... Maybe a pet peeve. Because people who make a blanket statement about what is rude or anything else, rarely consider all the possible situations that OTHERS come across (rather than their own, personal situations).

For example, when we get a 3 word note "Wanna fuck NOW?" along with a closeup cock shot (which our profile clearly says we don't want). We view it as rude. AND, we respond in a matching rude, usually with "Hey, that thing in the pic you sent looks like a penis only smaller".

Now, would that person rather have gotten that reply, or no reply at all?
Upland CA
 
 
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