Coming out About swinging: Swingers Discussion 105016

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TOPIC: Coming out About swinging

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User Details are only visible to members.	YOu know the saying, Shell, if you can remember the 60s, then you didn't live them. My husband's friend knows. But he doesn't know that I know that he knows...you know? So that's fun. Story: They were in Myrtle Beach recently for a week of fun with 22 other guys (golf trip) and they all went to a strip club. Hubby's buddy was admiring the pole dancers and my hubby leaned over to him and said, "I just 'did' a much better woman one last month at a hotel party where they set up a stripper pole." His friend's eyes got big and he said, "you lucky bastard." Kind of makes lap dances sort of passe now too, doesn't it? Usually my hubby says nothing, just smiles. But this time was ripe for the confession! hehehe.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It shocks me how my parent's generation can be suprised though. I mean hell, my parents were frickin flower children from the 60s. After years of smoking pot, eating special mushrooms and doing LSD you'd think that consentual fucking would be tame. Go figure ha. I guess becoming a grandparent makes you forget about 1967. LOL.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hahahha! Talk about being 'outted' I was nervous when we had company over in the middle of the afternoon on a weekday since we work from home. I was hoping the doorbell wouldn't ring with a customer or worse...my parents... on the other side. Since they've moved to another state so I can breath a little easier and only have to be patient (and quiet) with a ringing cell phone. I don't think my parents would be too pleased to learn what we do but then they'd have to accept there are certain things that have to be taken care of in my life that require 'special' consideration.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (181 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I showed this post to my husband and he told me some more about when his friend found out. A few months after his friend found out my husband was having a normal conversation with the friend's wife. Out of the blue she blurted out that she would feel too weird having sex with him. My husband had no idea why she was telling him this, so he just thanked her for clearing that up. Later on he talked to his friend about the "strange" conversation he'd had with his wife. Apparently one day the friend asked his wife, while she was blowing him, what she would think about having sex with us. She must have assumed that we had asked. Every now and then we still crack jokes about it with them, which seems to help put her at ease that we're just visiting friends and not there to fuck her.
Madison WI			Username hidden (57 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You and your balls Scotty D. I think you just like having your balls licked so you use any excuse lmao.....kiss kiss
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My sister knows what we do. Her family is in the dark. I think if my mother knew she'd stroke out. Irish catholic and all. Ask us an honest question, we'll give you an honest answer. We have had vanillia friends find out none freaked out. I think they were a bit jealous actually. We really dont' care who knows what we do. It's our thing if they don't like it... they can feel free to lick my balls.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yeah, I have found that men react with wide eyes and tell Jay damn, I wish my wife would consider that....and women react with wide eyes and are very curious about it. They ask lots of questions like how do you do it, aren't you jealous, etc. Its hard for them to get past their upbringing of believing its one man, one woman only for 40 years. I never render my opinion I just tell them kind of sterile this is what we do usually, how we do....pretty much what we tell newbies here. I have never had a vanilla get upset or react in a negative way. One of my closest friends doesn't agree with it for herself but gives us the right to our choices. I have felt honestly and quite frankly that the vanillas have been more open than some "swingers".
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	One of my sister's knows, which probably means they both know, but the only time it comes up is when my middle sister drinks too much. Neither of my parents know nor do I think it would be a good idea to tell them - they've never forgiven my husband for takin my virginity and moving us out of state. I don't think my husband's family knows, but I don't think they'd be as upset as mine. His best friend knows and was very curious about it, but I got the feeling he was interested in having sex with me more than anything. As for our kids - absolutely out of the question. As lost_j1 said, we're mom and dad and it's none of their business. I guess we see our sex life as none of their business, but if they found out we'd deal with it.
Madison WI			Username hidden (57 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In our home there is no talk about swinging in front of our children. Its just not their business and they are children. We are Mama and Daddy in this space. However, around family and friends we don't hide it but we don't flaunt it. Now almost all of my girlfriends know. They are curious about it. Jay's friends at work know. They are also curious. We have never told anyone and had them freak out other than my Dad. He honestly was freaked out over the thought (although his cheating throughout the 70s and most of the 80s was "normal"....go figure that one ha) but decided that we are adults and happy and its our business. My Mom and the rest of my family does not know because it would not be respectful to tell them. But again, this is completely up to you as a couple. There is nothing wrong with either way...keeping it completely between you or being more open. Its whatever you are comfortable with in my opinion.
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