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Created by: ArrPee Original Starting post for this thread:
Are some people just dumb or stubborn or what? Whenever someone messages and we're not interested i usually just say thanks, we're not interested. Most people will say thanks for the response and that's the end of it, some do not even reply but I'm amazed at how persistent some folks are. Example - This is the entire conversation: Them: would like to talk about a meeting tomorrow Us (same day): Thank you but we are not interested at this time Them (2 days later): we are ready to play tonight First of all, what the heck kind of a first contact is that??? Not even a hello, how are you, etc. Now, do we need to be more specific about the concept of time?? Did they think "at this time" meant only that day or just the moment the message was sent? Should I have said "Thank you but we are not interested at this time, that time, nor any time in between" OK, I feel better now that I've vented.

Created by: ArrPee
Original Starting post for this thread:

Are some people just dumb or stubborn or what?  Whenever someone messages and we're not interested i usually just say thanks, we're not interested. Most people will say thanks for the response and that's the end of it, some do not even reply but I'm amazed at how persistent some folks are.

Example - This is the entire conversation:

Them: would like to talk about a meeting tomorrow 

Us (same day): Thank you but we are not interested at this time

Them (2 days later): we are ready to play tonight

First of all, what the heck kind of a first contact is that??? Not even a hello, how are you, etc. Now, do we need to be more specific about the concept of time?? Did they think "at this time" meant only that day or just the moment the message was sent? Should I have said "Thank you but we are not interested at this time, that time, nor any time in between"

OK, I feel better now that I've vented.

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User Details are only visible to members.	...say sorry not interested but the questons and invites kep coming day after day by the same people... BLOCK THEM Frank
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9688 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	i get the same thing with instant messages,,,say sorry not interested but the questons and invites kep coming day after day by the same people...you always try to be nice but sometimes it becomes difficult
Warminster PA			Username hidden (879 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	honest to god I need to make a trip to talahassee.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Here's one we got awhile back from a couple after telling them we would be interested in meeting for dinner or drinks first and we DO NOT play on first date: "We relly want do something this wk end but she started her monthly, i dont mind it still good to me but i dont do oral at this time , but it stll tight.So what do want do , take a rain check or what "
Tallahassee FL			Username hidden (158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Typical e-mail exchange... My profile says to open pics first and not to ask for my e-mail addy to send pics.... Geesh! XXXX sensuoustexasraven XX-Dec-07 01:14 PM [EST] Subject: Wow!! I can send to your e-mail sensuoustexasraven XXXX XX-Dec-07 01:08 PM [EST] Subject: Wow!! Hun... If you are saying you have attached pictures I beg to differ. No pics have been attached to any e-mail from you. XXXX sensuoustexasraven XX-Dec-07 01:04 PM [EST] Subject: Wow!! It keeps telling me to choose a gallery and I only have one and you have seen 2 of the pictures all ready. Here is the 3rd sensuoustexasraven XXXX XX-Dec-07 01:00 PM [EST] Subject: Wow!! When yours are opened, I'll be glad to open mine hun.... XXXX sensuoustexasraven XX-Dec-07 12:57 PM [EST] Subject: Wow!! I am sorry only have a few pics. I am XXX: XXXlbs XXX eyes, XXX hair very oral (Straight) love to kiss, touch and work our way to the top. May I see your other pics? sensuoustexasraven XXXX XX-Dec-07 12:52 PM [EST] Subject: Wow!! Thank You. I can't see your pics, but women always love to recieve compliments. Raven XXXX sensuoustexasraven XX-Dec-07 12:47 PM [EST] Subject: Wow!! All I could think to say after reading your profile and seeing your pictures was "WOW" , great smile and those eyes.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I love it when "others" send an e-mail stating they have read my profile, and then ask for my e-mail addy to send pics. Read MY profile huh? Yeah right!
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Here was our most recent gem, from a charming "single" man, with a couples profile... can I have a chance thursday at 6pm male here ####
Reno NV			Username hidden (1177 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	trust me shelly you don't really want to know.............. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13982 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Okay, I got the pipe...but what the hell is the deal with the gerbil? Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wish I looked that good at 37. YIKES!!! Fortunately we don't get many emails of "want to meet" from couples. We do get alot of "hey she has nice tits do you let her play alone" from one segment of hte swinging population. to the "want to meet" question.... mmmm. I'd probably say something along the lines of. "Yes I love to meet, I have my gerbil and PVC pipe ready for you, what time can you make it".
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

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