Buccaneer Boots and Swinging: Swingers Discussion 2071001051

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User Details are only visible to members.	19 is a tough age; they know little but think they know all. If she's already into NSA sex, swinging might not be a big deal for her. Don't even think about playing with any of her friends and only offer advice if she asks. Give her some space and before long she'll be coming to you for guidance. Sometimes it seems like watching a train wreck, but hang in there!
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User Details are only visible to members.	For 'losamantes' Another thought occurred when I read your reply a second time. My 'Rina' is nineteen and we also pay her as an employee working in our salon business. She attended two semesters of cosmetology school, which we paid for, and want her to continue to work for us because her artistry with hair creations contributes to our client work. Her decision to work for Hooters was her own, and we were not displeased. We have visited the restaurant where she works and know it has that youthful sex appeal and sporty theme their patrons appreciate. This is a time of transition in my relationship with her, and I want to support her, yet my parenting instinct is to protect her from unwanted influences. She has objected to my attempt at parenting now that she is out of our home and living the single working female life.
Treasure Is FL			Username hidden (6164 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Someone better have a defibrillator handy if ZZ ever saw his daughter's profile with a cert from Fun_Ahoy.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Does it seem that I want to be her social director? I'll need to think about that. Since she has a Facebook profile, I would like to see who her friends are. Zazel knows some of what her activities and interests are, and Zabrina knows about our Krewe outings. When she was young, we took her in costume to the Gasparilla Fest, but have never included information about our swinging circle mates. I think that she and Zazel have talked privately about our involvement, but have not yet been told the details and have been told not to ask too many questions at this time. I know that Zazel is making sure Zabrina knows about sexual involvement limitation and pregnancy prevention, and would like to be part of that discussion. Once when visiting us Zabrina brought a friend Diana who also worked at Hooters also. She was the kind of cocoa-colored beauty who has enticing eyes, and I was delighted to meet her. One of my own secrets would be to have Zabrina become involved with her as a lover first before she chooses a primary guy. In her young life about the time I met her, Zazel was sexually involved with another female, and it was one of the factors that made her exciting to me! This is something I have shared with Zazel, and she knows it can be one element of enjoyable swinging. For me it would is important to know more about her friends and possibly meet some of them. Is that a reasonable request?
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User Details are only visible to members.	If she's over 21 and lives on her own without your support you should let her make her own choices as long as they don't affect her safety. Your experience is a great resource that you could share with her after she attends the orientation and is still interested in exploring the lifestyle. Be her mentor and not her social director and also respect the fact that she may have different swinging preferences than you.
Virginia Beach Westmoreland			Username hidden (288 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Our daughter visited us and asked her mom if she could wear her Buccaneer Boots for a weekend event. In the past she has accompanied us to the Gasparilla Pirate Festival in costume, and is very familiar with the historic role-play and Krewe of the event. When Zazel asked Zabrina why she wanted to wear her boots, she answered that she had spoken with a Tampa Hooters patron who invited her to a swinger's orientation party, and she wanted to dress for the occasion in a costume theme that included the Festival. Our daughter is very fit and attractive, and working at Hooters puts her in a place where she is highly visible. We have discouraged her relationship with several guys about whom she has told us she has an interest. We know that we cannot prevent her from having a relationship since she is no longer living with us and has enrolled in a marine biology curriculum at a local college. She and Zazel are connected as family on Facebook, and Zazel has seen Zabrina's friends list. She decided to tell our daughter about our swinging lifestyle and let her know some of what swinging involves. We thought that Zabrina was unaware of swinging possibilities, but know that our culture is highly swinger-oriented and promoted, and realize we cannot prevent her from being curious and accepting the invitation to swinger's orientation. I would like to be involved in deciding who Zabrina meets, and if she should swing with him/her/them. Am I wrong? What would you do in a situation like this? ~~Captain Z~~
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