Buccaneer Boots and Swinging: Swingers Discussion 2071001041

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User Details are only visible to members.	There are people out there with vivid imaginations, who sometimes construct a fantasy world for themselves. It becomes more realistic for them if they can draw real people into a conversation about their fantasies. Just sayin'.
Belle Chasse LA			Username hidden (8678 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I find it extremely odd any father would want to guide his daughter into successful swinging, never mind line up partners he found acceptable for her. Lady! you are so much nicer than I am. I find it disgusting. Knowing the way the OP is, I say he's full of shit and is trying to stir up the forums.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12730 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The key word there is ADULT . Your daughter is an adult. What you do with your children is up to you of course but we don't mix our family life with our childrens life, not now and surely not when they were younger and more impressionable. As adults their share their life issues with me as they feel comfortable and I offer any help or guidance they request . Key word there "They REQUEST" I would absolutely never discuss my sex life with my children nor do I ask question regarding theirs. I taught them safe sex, I taught them to always do the best they can to keep themselves safe from lunatics and unsafe environments . I do not care what century we live in, interjecting fantasies, preferences and ideals into their sex life is not my place. My children and I share far more than most but I surely do not see the need to share the swinging experience and pick their partners for them based on what I have learned or what I find desirable in a playmate. The very idea of picking out a playmate for my daughter sickens me as does teaching her how to have "casual" sex . I find it extremely odd any father would want to guide his daughter into successful swinging, never mind line up partners he found acceptable for her. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4447 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	For 'Ms. Sav' This is a swinger's topic in the 21st Century, not a Fiddler on the Roof episode with Tevya, Goldie, and their daughters. If my short introduction to my daughter's upcoming encounter makes you uneasy, what happened when your adult children watch 'The Secret Life of Teenagers' or 'Pretty Little Liars' in their late teen years? Some of our family recreation involved intercostal boating with a couple whom we met at a swinging venue, and they had children also. Weekends we took our daughter and son to Orlando to experience Universal CityWalk and Downtown Disney, and let them see a more expansive view of Florida's night life.
Treasure Is FL			Username hidden (6165 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I would like to be involved in deciding who Zabrina meets, and if she should swing with him/her/them. Am I wrong? What would you do in a situation like this?" As a mother of 4 adult children I say leave her the hell alone. At 19 she doesn't need or want your interference or guidance as I am sure you see it. You have absolutely no right to be privy to her sexual life and it seems absurd to me you'd want to be. I can't possibly know what exactly you are thinking but your comment regarding her friend Diana and your secret fantasy made my stomach turn. If she wants to swing it is her decisions, if she decides she is Bi , Gay , monogamous or an old maid is her decision. The fact that YOU have a secret fansty /desire to see her have a relationship with Diana who you don't even know more than in passing is pretty damn twisted since you make no mention of her being Bi, Bi curious or Gay for the matter. The fact that your wife was involved with a women when you met her and you found that hot and talk about your your daughter in the same sentence I find really troublesome. The fact that you want to "mentor" her into the swinging world is strange . I can't imagine for the life of me why you would want to be "involved" in her relationships sexual or otherwise. If you did your job as a parent properly she should be on solid ground regarding safety or birth control and if not it's too late to fix it now. I simply do not get it . I would never EVER introduce my child to swinging, encourage them to swing and for sure wouldn't fantasize secretly my daughter would become sexually active with a women . I support my children , I support whatever sexual choices they make for themselves but I do not see it as my place to art direct the course they chose to follow. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4447 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My nature as a pleasure pirate is to transgress boundaries and claim booty. My nature as a parent is to protect my sweet darling from being victimized. Knowing that my sweet darling is now practicing mixology and disguising herself with an alternate identity gives me reason to send Krewe spies and employ spyflys. Facebook is often linked to mobile telephone, and could leave a trail to a relationship of interest. Zazel has informed me that our daughter has purloined cigarillos from her purse on multiple occasions. A daughter with a secretive life needs a nocturnal guardian angel, even if he is a pirate.
Treasure Is FL			Username hidden (6165 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Let me ask a question and drop some food for thought. If she was coming out as "gay" or open Bi. Would you still want to be as involved ? If there is any advice to give, it seems to be a no brain'ur and a easy choice to me. Let nature run it's course and just be sure to avoid each other via swinger sites. IE this is where your Mom and I are online please avoid it. And you daughter,, vice verse goes for her,, if you are on grind or the swinger version of it. We will not view or use it. Boundaries set all should navigate well. I don't see where facebook has anything to do with anything ? Both your social circle's seem to be eclectic anyway. Should any paths happen to cross vanilla** I doubt there would be any huge issues.
Atlanta GA			Username hidden (2136 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hmm... I. think I think, that it is wonderful to be open and honest as you seem with your daughter. I also think I think, aside from safety issues and concerns, which I am sure you will always share with her, I may be very old fashioned and not sure that her sex life would be that much my business. I think I need to think about this more. lol. I'm conflicted.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You're going to run into a HUGE internal conflict where part of you wants to protect her, and part of you knows she needs to make her own decisions. Part of being an adult requires you to make a few mistakes. Guide her, but walk the line carefully as to not "tell" her what she can or can't do. That will build resentment quickly, and shut down communications if she makes a decision that she thinks you wouldn't agree with.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1084 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Our Krewe has specific limitations and constraints. We invited a number of similar-minded, similar-culture swingers with our 'krewe' concept. You would be more likely to be considered than a younger couple or female Zabrina's age, and someone that young would probably not show interest in us. Her friend Diana did stir the dominant male swinging extinct within me, as you may have intuited. We know that Zabrina has been to Bongos Cuban Cafe in Orlando. She would certainly excite the Latin men. With her burgundy/medium brown/blond tricolor hair and long legs, she has eye appeal. She is provocative, and I still hold her in my heart as my sweet darling. I would Like to know with whom she is considering being a swing partner. Your advice is the same for me as Zazzy's. This transition was unexpected at this time.
Treasure Is FL			Username hidden (6165 post)

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