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TOPIC: Becoming too attached
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| I wonder how many people run into this situation..where one member of the couple becomes too attached to a person he or she is swinging with. Maybe that's why playing separately could be a danger because you can become too intimate with the other person? I know it's supposed to just be for fun, but sometimes being physicial with someone can generate other feelings, unless you are all just in the same room having fun at the same time. Have other people run into this issue? Is this why some couples will only play together? |
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I think it's a fact of life. It doesn't happen to everyone or even a majority. I have seen it happen to more than a few over the years. It happens in every day life. The guy and girl who work in the same office. The guy and girl who run into each other at the soccer field. It happens. It's life.
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thanks for sharing your experiences, and welcome to the forums. I think you will be a welcome addition here.
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Maybe it's me, but even after swinging with the same female several times that thought of saying THOSE words should/could/would never have come from my lips no matter how much I enjoyed f-ing her. It's never more that a physical act of expression and why even by mistake, someone making it a mental one seems odd. It would raise serious issues about the one who said it and were exactly their mind was at the time it was said...seriously, serious issues. I would not be able to look at the person the same way and would definitely not swing with them again.
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erica agreed. Someone looks in my eyes and says I love you and that would be it, I'd be so freaked out that would be it.
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I've had it said to me, and depending on whom, I've ignored it.
I barely say it to Dan...only when I call him "Daniel" and am REALLY feeling passionate...usually I'm screaming too much to be coherent. |
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Make sure you get a pic of the offending lover's forehead after you stab him with your stiletto Erica. Hee hee.
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Well, it could, I suppose. I meant the sort of obsession that has them calling every day...
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haha...yeah, stalkers are no fun. Needy doesn't look good on anyone, and obsession even less.
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Oh its not me, this one I refer to is Jay's nutcase stalker LOL.
I don't think she knows that if he were to leave me for her...the kids go along with the benefit package. LOL. |
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