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TOPIC: BEING BLOCKED II

Created by: trandcs Original Starting post for this thread:
Is there some un written rule that members have to respond within 24 hrs to mail messages. When we got home last night we checked our emails and our mail messages from this site as well as others. A couple in our area sent us a message around 9:00 pm. They stated they liked our profile and if we were interested, let them know. We were tired and decided to respond to emails and mail messages the next day. Today after work we decided to go out to dinner after work. We we got home we started going through emails and messages and noticed the couple that sent us a message the night before wrote us again. We thought cool, its the weekend we have no plans and maybe if their free we can get together for drinks or dinner. Then we opened the message and this is what it said " Most people would of at least responded with a "no thank you". We're guessing you are real popular in the swing scene. At least we found out quick and easy about you with little effort." It was less than 24 hours after they sent us the first message. So we decided to reply and tell them it was late last night, and we were tired (not that we needed to explain after that message) and we usually don't get on this site before 9:00 or 10:00 pm because we have 3 kids. That's when we noticed we were blocked and couldn't respond. Are you kidding me! To that couple, many people on this site have lives outside this website. I'm sure many people don't sit around waiting for you to send them a message. We are on this site to meet fun an interesting people and have good times. We have been have met many wonferful couples and singles on this site that we still meet and get together with, when time permits. But to block us not even 24 hrs after they sent us a mail message, and not letting us respond is juvenile and rude. Has this ever happened to anyone else?

Created by: trandcs
Original Starting post for this thread:

Is there some un written rule that members have to respond within 24 hrs to mail messages.  When we got home last night we checked our emails and our mail messages from this site as well as others. A couple in our area sent us a message around 9:00 pm.  They stated they liked our profile and if we were interested, let them know.  We were tired and decided to respond to emails and mail messages the next day.  Today after work we decided to go out to dinner after work.  We we got home we started going through emails and messages and noticed the couple that sent us a message the night before wrote us again.  We thought cool, its the weekend we have no plans and maybe if their free we can get together for drinks or dinner.  Then we opened the message and this is what it said

 " Most people would of at least responded with a "no thank you".  We're guessing you are real popular in the swing scene.  At least we found out quick and easy about you with little effort."

It was less than 24 hours after they sent us the first message.  So we decided to reply and tell them it was late last night, and we were tired (not that we needed to explain after that message) and we usually don't get on this site before 9:00 or 10:00 pm because we have 3 kids.  That's when we noticed we were blocked and couldn't respond.  Are you kidding me!  

To that couple,  many people on this site have lives outside this website.  I'm sure many people don't sit around waiting for you to send them a message.  We are on this site to meet fun an interesting people and have good times.  We have been have met many wonferful couples and singles on this site that we still meet and get together with, when time permits.  But to block us not even 24 hrs after they sent us a mail message, and not letting us respond is juvenile and rude. 

Has this ever happened to anyone else?

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User Details are only visible to members.	We were looking online the other night, saw a bifem profile that we were going to read, I am str8 we were not interested in actual contact, but something in the tag line was interesting enough to read the profile, found out we were blocked, makes perfect sense to us we are,,, blocked hers and went on our merry way to the next profile that sounded interesting enough to read. ~Swt
Spring TX			Username hidden (1844 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We were looking online the other night, saw a bifem profile that we were going to read, I am str8 we were not interested in actual contact, but something in the tag line was interesting enough to read the profile, found out we were blocked, makes perfect sense to us we are,,, blocked hers and went on our merry way to the next profile that sounded interesting enough to read. ~Swt
Spring TX			Username hidden (1844 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	setxcpl, it wouldn't surprise us if you were blocked because they were only interested in couples where the lady is bi. Happens all the time. Jim and his straight lady P
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Now that you mention it Kinky, that is a great idea. -s
Rochester NY			Username hidden (10385 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yea a folder structure with filters would be amazlingly helpful!!!! but that's just my opinion I'm sure.
Bear DE			Username hidden (160 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	setxcpl Don't take it personally. It could be the couple checked you out and decided they were not interested and blocked you. It could also be that they know you or feel they might know you in the vanilla world and don't wish to be exposed.
Sandston VA			Username hidden (195 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	dzzy thats a bad feature here ,you read an email it automatically goes to another part of the email section. Ie the read emails.Very easy to forget that you have an unanswered email. Sometimes I will forget that it is there to even speak to the wife about who has sent an email. It may be a week or more.oooops. So many other important details about life to want to deal with the crackpots that have had their feelings hurt with a no or forgotten response
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This hasn't happen to me, but I would think that these people had problems and or they have not been in the lifestyle long. Most people know that this is a hobby done when work is done and kids tucked in bed ..etc..etc. Heck most of the couples I know only actually meet other swingers once a month and sometimes will go a week or more before checking email on swinger sites. People have lives outside of swinging the people that forget that most likely are not the type you want in your life.
Sandston VA			Username hidden (195 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	yes it has. my better looking half has a bad habit of always reading emails and never responding to ANY of them. she just doesnt feel comfortable in writing emails (language thing) and i do. sometimes i miss ones she has read and we get alot of "you know it's rude not to reply", bla bla. whatever. we have always believed that the "lifestyle" or however u wish to call it is about cool fun people getting together. if we write an email and the couple does not respond right away thats ok.. if they are real and in this game long enough, the will see what they are missing and get back to us ;-)
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (5330 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Trandes- Isn't it better that you learned of this member's impulsiveness before you got in bed with them?
Memphis TN			Username hidden (855 post)

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