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TOPIC: Attraction or just Friends

Created by: firequeen254 Original Starting post for this thread:
This seems to be the most difficult situation people have communicating. It should not be this difficult. If your going to be in the lifestyle then you have to have thick skin when it comes to communicating your desires or lack of. If you like someone; the simply tell them. If your not attracted to someone who has e-mailed or engaged you; just tell them so. Rejection is a part of swinging. Maybe we are the exception but I think we are told more often that someone is not interested in us. It's not that big a deal. You can't expect everyone to want to jump in bed with you. You can wish for it; but not expect it. Swinging is a lot easier when all parties are honest with each other. This also applies to answering e-mail. Don't ignore someone who writes you because your not interested. How rude! Be courteous and write back to them. It's the right thing to do. After all...you should be flattered that someone took interest in you...right? As for people that get angry and rude when they are rejected; you are part of the problem. Grow up and act like an adult. If you act like a child people will treat you like a child. It's so not necessary. Theres someone out there looking for you. Keep looking. If you are unable to take rejection without getting your feeling hurt then maybe you should look for a different hobby. Well thats it boys and girls. Live and learn.

Created by: firequeen254
Original Starting post for this thread:

This seems to be the most difficult situation people have communicating. It should not be this difficult. If your going to be in the lifestyle then you have to have thick skin when it comes to communicating your desires or lack of. If you like someone; the simply tell them. If your not attracted to someone who has e-mailed or engaged you; just tell them so. Rejection is a part of swinging. Maybe we are the exception but I think we are told more often that someone is not interested in us. It's not that big a deal. You can't expect everyone to want to jump in bed with you. You can wish for it; but not expect it.  Swinging is a lot easier when all parties are honest with each other. This also applies to answering e-mail. Don't ignore someone who writes you because your not interested. How rude! Be courteous and write back to them. It's the right thing to do. After all...you should be flattered that someone took interest in you...right?  

As for people that get angry and rude when they are rejected; you are part of the problem. Grow up and act like an adult. If you act like a child people will treat you like a child. It's so not necessary. Theres someone out there looking for you. Keep looking. If you are unable to take rejection without getting your feeling hurt then maybe you should look for a different hobby. Well thats it boys and girls. Live and learn.

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User Details are only visible to members.	This seems to be the most difficult situation people have communicating. It should not be this difficult. If your going to be in the lifestyle then you have to have thick skin when it comes to communicating your desires or lack of. If you like someone; the simply tell them. If your not attracted to someone who has e-mailed or engaged you; just tell them so. Rejection is a part of swinging. Maybe we are the exception but I think we are told more often that someone is not interested in us. It's not that big a deal. You can't expect everyone to want to jump in bed with you. You can wish for it; but not expect it. Swinging is a lot easier when all parties are honest with each other. This also applies to answering e-mail. Don't ignore someone who writes you because your not interested. How rude! Be courteous and write back to them. It's the right thing to do. After all...you should be flattered that someone took interest in you...right? As for people that get angry and rude when they are rejected; you are part of the problem. Grow up and act like an adult. If you act like a child people will treat you like a child. It's so not necessary. Theres someone out there looking for you. Keep looking. If you are unable to take rejection without getting your feeling hurt then maybe you should look for a different hobby. Well thats it boys and girls. Live and learn.
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