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TOPIC: Attraction Expectations
Created by: kinddraggon
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I am wondering what might be some 'expectations' women may have in order to 'know or think" that a male is attracted to her, before she will have sex with him. (Via email or M&G)

I tend to be approached by more females than males, and sometimes I do not receive much imput from their husbands. Am I wrong to think I should feel some sort of enthusiasm before I make this decision, lol ...cause I think no enthusiasm means they're just not attracted, which is fine by me, but the female half doesn't see that. And I'm not interested in being with someone who might be taking one for the team....

Question applies to males as well. ;)
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shhh.... I have to talk very low cause my head hurts... lol...

Carrie, I'm old fashioned too,
....at the very least I need to see some good smiles to start.

SS, lol, I think I was saying I atleast want 1% from potential playmates
...altho ...I vaguely remember writing that. lol

The fisherman was waiting for me, and I always get 100% from him. ;)
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I am an old fashion kind of a gal and the man has to make the first move, with me, or there will be no play. You can be the quiet type but you better be able to step up to the plate, when it is time.

Carrie
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LOL. where's that fisherman?
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I'll take a 1% rate of interest. Lmao! I'm extremely drunk now.... I'll delete this later... lmao........
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KD, I think in some ways guys who are very physical appearance driven when it comes to choosing playmates get a bad rap. We're often referred to as being shallow, but the fact is, I already have a lifemate. There are many qualities I need to see in her, that I do not need to see in a potential playmate. Because of this, it breaks down to simple math. 50% physical appearance. 50% attitude.
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Thanx SS...
I actually just came here wanting to delete my OP cause I pretty much know the answer. The few couples we are interested in, and 'she' says 'they' are also, do have a very quiet male. It's annoying cause that 'quiet' feels like 'un-interested', and like I said in my OP, un-interested is fine by me, and i can certainly move on, but not knowing for sure which it is, is annoying and not fun.

My OP could have asked: So what kind of things turn you on the most, when someone is showing you they are attracted to you? ;)) ...simple is so much simpler. lol.
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I am wondering what might be some 'expectations' women may have in order to 'know or think" that a male is attracted to her, before she will have sex with him. (Via email or M&G)

I tend to be approached by more females than males, and sometimes I do not receive much imput from their husbands. Am I wrong to think I should feel some sort of enthusiasm before I make this decision, lol ...cause I think no enthusiasm means they're just not attracted, which is fine by me, but the female half doesn't see that. And I'm not interested in being with someone who might be taking one for the team....

Question applies to males as well. ;)
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