Are no weekends a red flag: Swingers Discussion 164099101

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TOPIC: Are no weekends a red flag

Created by: 2plusu442 Original Starting post for this thread:
If SM cannot do weekends, is that a sign they are maybe married or in a relationship that they are hiding?

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User Details are only visible to members.	My bad...I later remembered it was about a single male. We do talk to single males as well as couples. One of my first questions with a single male is "If we were to play together do I have to worry about someone finding out and coming after me or getting an out-of-the-blue phone call from a pissed off someone who found out my phone number?" It's not your typical question so judging on the response to this question I get a good feel for whether I should continue to talk to them or not. I also ask them if they have a girlfriend and again more questions. It seems to me there are plenty of other things that could be red flags as well though...For example, I can only talk on the phone between the hours of ?? and ??. I've ruled out so many single males before I've even asked about their availability. S
Sunnyvale CA			Username hidden (64 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ohmy....you're makeing me blush, but if you need someone to rinse you off, call me. I love NO and always had a great time when I was there(every other weekend for over 2 yrs). Single guys that can't meet on weekends are usually married and playing without the wifey, although scheduling other times to meet can be daunting. Another way I've used to show I'm really asingle guy is to schedule meets at a local bar adn make arrangements to come back to my place for any play time. I also rely on my certs to let people know that I'm for real. P.S My private pics are open for you
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9714 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	s72 ~ The red flag thing was about a single guy not being able to play on weekends. There are many guys that say they are single that are actually married and playing w/o their wifes knowledge. Not being able to get away on the weekends is pretty typical of that situation ~ tho, that's obviously not always the case (winks at rdy!) Couples will be very understanding of your situation. Weekday dates are fun! ;)
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In our case he works weekends. 10 hour shifts Friday through Monday. By the time he gets off work and could get anywhere to play it would only be for 90 minutes to an hour before he has to drive back home to sleep. We like to play with other couples for longer than that so we only schedule play dates on days he has off work (Tues, Weds and Thur.). Although, we do spend time alone together during the weekends when I don't have my kids. We say this in our profile and are happy to discuss it more with couples when we communicate. As soon as he has enough vacation time available we plan on making arrangements to play with other couples on the weekend as well as trips to other cities but that's not going to be for a couple of months. So, don't automatically assume anything just from a couple not being available on weekends. However, it is worth inquiring about.
Sunnyvale CA			Username hidden (64 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	How about if a SM works weekend from 8PM to 6AM Thurs/Fri/Sat/Sunday like I do. I've have never hidden my status as a SM and it's dishearting that other jerks resort to lying and cheating.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9714 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Usually, yes. Now, if it's an every other weekend kind of thing, they probably have petites that they share custody of. Best to ask why they can't make it and see how legitimate the reason is.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (497 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It is to me. We've had that come up and it has always pointed to a married guy trying to play single. Or in a committed (I use the term loosely) relationship and she doesn't know. Either that or he's in the reserves or National Guard. Doubtful. G.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6064 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If SM cannot do weekends, is that a sign they are maybe married or in a relationship that they are hiding?
Westminster CA			Username hidden (45 post)

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TOPIC: Are no weekends a red flag