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Kind, ours are will be 11 and 9 this year and we have been swinging for almost 6 years, so yes they are used to it, as are the Adult kids, luckily other then one summer before we got married the adult kids have never lived with us. My parents understand we like to go out and have us time, and my adult step daughter watches them at times while we go out too.

Bottom line its nobody's business where we go, its not like they are going to call where we are if there is an emergency, they will call our cell phones. What information I give out is truthful, if not the whole truth. I do at times have to come up with creative ways that we met people.

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I rarely get questions beyond, "where are you headed" dancing is our usual reply, unless there is a show we want to see in which case I'll say the Burlesque show at ___. what I leave out is after the show we will hit the club. Or around the holidays we are always going to holiday parties...we go say our hello's and goodbyes and then hit the club.

We went out all the time when we were dating and first married so no one really thinks much of it.

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I myself cannot tell a lie at all and am terrible trying to do it while Mrs Lookin deflects all the tough questions from curious family and friends very well.

HMMMMMMM (Note to self) Ask Mrs Lookin again if I have the greatest package she has ever seen and watch for eye movement to the left or right while she answers !!

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lotsopeeps- I can understand your pain, although my mom usually watches the girls, my niece lives on our farm and you never know when she is going to pop in. A couple of weeks ago I had showered, put on make up, perfume, the whole going out ritual to go visit a SM friend. Slipped on a easy off dress and heels and just as I was headed out the door into the house she comes. "where are you going" . Out was my reply lol. Hubby was home so she knew he knew I was headed out looking ready for sex.

We have always enjoyed going out even before swinging so it isn't that surprising to them that we like to go out when we can.

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Thanks! Sweettart, loved your answer, hahaha!!! Babysitter got a job too, so that helps. Although she's not available as often but it gives her something to focus on other than what we're up to.

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The It's non of your god damn business answer always worked for us.


 
 
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We kind of had same type thing happen here. When we were asked "why" the change in our regular lifestyle pattern, we responded with, that is why. We wanted needed a change in our pattern. we found a few groups on the internet that wanted to change their pattern. So now with the help of the internet we found goups of people that like the same thing we like or want to know about. Some groups play cards or games, others dance, others what ever. All of our family seamed to think it was great and even thought about finding groups for themselves. Now they still don't know what groups we choose to meet with but keeps them off our backs. Good luck

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We have extended family living with us right now and while it's nice to have a live-in babysitter, it's complicated to explain where we are going all the time. We are new to the lifestyle and all of the sudden we have all these dinner dates with couples our family never heard of. Or we are suddenly dressing up to go out "dancing" on a Saturday which we didn't use to do, followed by staying til the wee hours of the night, also something we never used to do. And then the questions of where, who and what get confusing. We don't give any more information than we need to. Is this just to complicated to do when you have family asking questions?!?! We only get out two or three times a month, but since she lives here, she sees and hears and picks up on who know what. Any ideas on how to handle this better?

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