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Created by: sideways69 Original Starting post for this thread:
In another thread, someone posted, "When is the last time you saw anyone at a swing party shooting up drugs or having anal sex?" We're complete newbies and have never done anyting or been to a party. We may end up at a party one of these days, though watching/being watched rather than swapping. My question is, is anal sex bad form at a swing party? I was actually kind of looking forward to showing that off. (disregard the "shooting up drugs" part of the quote.)

Created by: sideways69
Original Starting post for this thread:

In another thread, someone posted, "When is the last time you saw anyone at a swing party shooting up drugs or having anal sex?"

We're complete newbies and have never done anyting or been to a party. We may end up at a party one of these days, though watching/being watched rather than swapping. My question is, is anal sex bad form at a swing party? I was actually kind of looking forward to showing that off.
(disregard the "shooting up drugs" part of the quote.)

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User Details are only visible to members.	You are so correct. An enema before any hard playing ensures lots more wicked pleasure for everyone. WEG
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm pretty experienced, and I've never been to a club that had a "rule" about anal sex! I've seen it at parties and clubs plenty of times, although it's certainly less common than vaginal or oral sex. Some people don't like it, and many women who do like anal only want to do it with a man they trust not to hurt them. An inexperienced partner really CAN hurt you, y'know. To be up for anal, I have to be very aroused, and to be honest, some alcohol on board is also very helpful, LOL. I will sometimes do it with someone I just met if the stars align correctly. If I hook up with a man who has a small cock, I usually insist on it. As to the rather unsavory story related below, I have to wonder if these women were inexperienced. I mean, jeez, anyone who's been around the sexual block knows that you don't attempt anal if you have a full bowel. Not only potentially messy but a lot less pleasurable. I almost always use an enema before sex, especially if I"m going to a potentially wild party. Even if I don't do any anal, I enjoy everything more that way. Try it, ladies, I'm serious.
Springfield VA			Username hidden (262 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Not only saw anal sex at a house party but was a participant with the female guest. It was her choice and the only time I've been aware of it at a lifestyle function. And Jim, just let me know when Mrs. Valovers wants her DP; I'd be honored to assist! Phil
Bowie MD			Username hidden (85 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sorry, central, but this thread has conjured up images in my head of people running around at swing clubs sniffing each other's a-holes to see if they're anal sex ready! ROFL Jim
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User Details are only visible to members.	Jim, Jim, Jim, LOL.
Center Valley PA			Username hidden (8499 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As my dad used to like to say "every dog smells his own hole." ROFL Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Triple, It is not so much strangers cause hey, chatting with someone on SLS before hand does not mean I really know anything more about the person than I would an absolute stranger at a Swing Party. Personally for me, I have a HUGE hang-up about cleanliness. If I have not prepared myself before anal sex, it isn't gonna happen. Let's just say if I prepared myself at 8, and it's midnight, I would not be so sure I was still prepared. It's not an impression I care to make on anyone, nor something I would care to see either ) :~ Preparation helps to avoid any mess and that's my thought on that! RaveN ( :~
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Triple, we can only give you our thoughts on this and they woould be that anal sex does have the potential to get messy so avoiding potential embarassment could be a reason. Once that is done, for us it's time for a shower and a thorough cleaning of body parts. At a party this can interupt your play for sometimes. We enjoy it but have to say only with a select few that we know and trust.
Center Valley PA			Username hidden (8499 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have not seen anal at the swing clubs or larger house parties I have attended. Of course, I have not looked for it either. I did not know it was a rule, but common courtesy would make me think it was not something to do at those. I think smaller house parties where people are more familiar with each other is more acceptable for anal sex? As far as drug use....I have not looked for it. I'm sure it does to some extent, (hopefully not needles), but not out in the open. RaveN ( :~
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Most of the on-premise clubs/house parties we have been to have a standing no anal rule. They do it for two reasons. The first one just has to do with no one having to worry about someone going where they shouldn't be going. Not everone is comfortable or even capable of doing anal. For those that aren't they can enjoy the sex without having to have a guard or keep there eyes out for inconsiderate people coming up behind them. The second one is the after effects some people have from anal. I know of two instances in the past couple of months that that rule was broken at the cherry pit. In both instances, and the actual reason I even know they broke the rule, they made a huge mess after the act was performed. Unfortunately both (not sure if it was the same female both times) of the women lost complete control of their bowels after he was done. Because of that, the bed had to be completely stripped down, sprayed down (yes, there is plastic underneath the sheets), and remade up. I know personally, we both like anal. She hasn't invited anyone else to go there yet, but she hasn't been that comfortable with anyone yet even though she fantasizes about it. When she does, it will more likely than not be performed in someone's house and not at a party. Zo.
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