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Ok.. we have been in the lifestyle for about 10 years now and have experienced something new.. How to you tell a couple that you just don't feel the "swinging" with them is..well fun... They are good people and we like them as friends but twice now I(the MALE) haven't been mentally stimulated or engaged .. and unlike most people it seems, there has to be more than just a hot body to get me interested... to be blunt, the female is hot as hell but cant seem to engage me mentally to the point that I am turned off.. Wifey loves the couple (especially her who is bi) but I am unsure i want to continue with this particular couple...
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For us it may be a little different because we don't invest time in lifestyle couples that we don't play with for what ever reason. So the answer for us would be easy, we would just end the relationship and move on.
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We have had this problem ourselves and there is no sure way to do it but the direct and truthful approach seem to be best.
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Well, here's how I look at it.
I know that, if a couple we played with felt this way, I'd want to know. And I'd probably never guess until someone spoke up. I'd want to address it and try to either make things better, or go separate ways so everyone wins. So, I suppose a very honest, direct, and non antagonizing conversation would be the best course of action. First with your S.O... don't want to surprise her with this! |
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Ok.. we have been in the lifestyle for about 10 years now and have experienced something new.. How to you tell a couple that you just don't feel the "swinging" with them is..well fun... They are good people and we like them as friends but twice now I(the MALE) haven't been mentally stimulated or engaged .. and unlike most people it seems, there has to be more than just a hot body to get me interested... to be blunt, the female is hot as hell but cant seem to engage me mentally to the point that I am turned off.. Wifey loves the couple (especially her who is bi) but I am unsure i want to continue with this particular couple...
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TOPIC: Advice wanted
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