4somcplcpl cuming: Swingers Discussion 107982

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TOPIC: 4som=cpl-cpl cuming

Created by: jjfarms5 Original Starting post for this thread:
New to this and like it- We are with the other clp full swap and the other man stops for some reason,don't like the condom I think. I'm lost to what I I'm to do?? Ok if he cums how long do I continue? Is there a man or clp rule?

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User Details are only visible to members.	We've run across women like that as well, usually at a big party. It's almost as if she HAS to have a man cum in order to feel like she was successful. Good luck, chicky, b/c when you put pressure like that on some men, it's just not going to happen then. Now, I will say, that my husband enjoys aggressive women, and may well indeed, if so inclined, come on command like that, but not with just anyone. I don't know...that hasn't really happened. At any rate, our style still applies, and he doesn't even ALWAYS cum with me...just depends on the night/day/time and what we're doing. Neither of us minds that at all, he always "gets his" sooner or later..no complaints. There's a lot of power play with some people. We don't need or invite that into our swing life. Like our profile reads, we are not pushy, rude, or competitive. I've only been with one guy who was pushy enough to "have to" cum, and needless to say, that was our one negative experience. The guy was rude, pushy and selfish, and never again. (This is NOT the type that I like...the ones who I already know and enjoy who will tell me what they're going to do to me...I LOVE THAT. That's not what I was talking about above.) Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Obviously, her EGO is controlled by the other man cumming. Sounds like the woman had a confidence issue. LOL!" My thoughts exactly! Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16533 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To cum or not to cum.. lol.. I cum.. then I cum again with wifey.. I cant always cum with either.. so if it happens cool.. if not cool.. no big deal.. as long as the ladies are happy..I'm happy..
Tampa FL			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"They were so offended that my hubby doesn't cum with other women that they let me know they would never met us. I couldn't figure that one out. " Obviously, her EGO is controlled by the other man cumming. Sounds like the woman had a confidence issue. LOL!
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My hubby usually holds back until he is with me also. I remember talking about that in the forums once and another poster attacked me for it. They were so offended that my hubby doesn't cum with other women that they let me know they would never met us. I couldn't figure that one out. Carrie
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User Details are only visible to members.	Dan holds back and usually cums later with me, but that's just his style of play, and varies with some of the women he's with. He's into pleasing, and delays his own satisfaction. His fun, many times, is making a woman cum as often as she wants to or can. That is exactly what Mr. Simba does too.
Mountain Ranch CA			Username hidden (8750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There is no rule. It varies from person to person. I don't agree that ejaculating always means "the end" of play. Dan holds back and usually cums later with me, but that's just his style of play, and varies with some of the women he's with. He's into pleasing, and delays his own satisfaction. His fun, many times, is making a woman cum as often as she wants to or can. It may be that, since I can orgasm pretty easily and frequently, that our dynamic is different than others'. Maybe the man stopped b/c he didn't want to cum yet and was close to it. I don't know. Everyone has preferences and styles and boundaries and interests, so that's what makes this all so interesting. On Friday night, we were in our bed with another couple, and after Dan and the other lady were "done," meaning she had cum until she crumpled into a ball and said "no more," they cuddled up and slept a bit. Dan didn't cum. Didn't matter to him, as he knew he can cum with me anytime...it's all fun for him. The other guy and I fucked, stopped, fucked, stopped...we just are like that with each other, as I think he wanted to cum w/ his own wife, as is their usual "style." Needless to say, that's only one incident of playtime. And we were all quite happy. We would fuck, giggle and talk, fuck some more in various positions and manners (for instance, she brought a new toy to try on me and I loved it!), mostly with the other person's pleasure utmost. And it was "his" birthday, so he got to voice what he wanted. Of course, "it's all good" to him. I'm rambling, but just wanted to point out that each experience is its own. You can't always say who's going to orgasm, ejaculate, be "done" or not. It's all sex, it's all fun and good, and if someone is not satisfied physically, why can't that person's SO help out in that area? Or not. When you swing for fun, and it isn't so "important" anymore, then everyone wins and there's not any anxiety about the results. Bodies, skin, orgasms, giggles, touch, taste, feeling that new cock slide into you for the first time after being teased with it for a while... ...well. Gina
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User Details are only visible to members.	We just continue on till everyone is done.. I myself "male" love to watch.. But did have a laugh the other night.. we was all in the same bed.. and I was getting a BJ while wife rode the other male.. I told the other female I was going to cum.. then told her I was cumming.. Got done.. and she looked at me an said.. did you cum? I was like umm yea sure did.. and her hubby.. looks at her an smiles.. course he did hun.. it is running down your chin.. :)
Tampa FL			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have always, depending on what the other couple prefer, just carried on until we each finish in our own times. I'm not to fussed about just watching/joining Chris and his partner if i've finished first. Although i know that when Chris has finished first, that he feels a bit uncomfortable watching me for a few minutes (til he's in the mood again). It all depends on how well/secure you feel with your playmates too though, i suppose. But all in all, we tend to let each other take as long as we each need.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Kisses back atcha, diamondgirl! How's it going? Jim
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TOPIC: 4som=cpl-cpl cuming