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| would u let your partner swing with a person u didnt like but they had a attraction |
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We have to agree and feel comfortable all the way around. If there is any hesitation about going through with being with some one we have to discuss it and that's enough to stop everything. We had a chance to have a FMF with this super sexy thick hot female. I was game. My wife however had issues and we called the whole thing off. Made us a stronger couple. Learned how to listen with the right head that day.
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Yes I would as long as I am along to make sure that she is safe.
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Tripoli IA |
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Welcome to the forum TeamTko!:)
ps... if you reply twice by accident, you can delete one of them. fyi... sometimes it hesitates after you click submit, so f you iwait for that hesitation, it most often will go through... :) |
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It's never come up with us before. We have a "we both play or no way" rule. So if we are not compatible with both members of the other couple we simply pass. It's. Nothing personal and hopefully they understand that. We a still newbies so if the situation presents it's self in the future we will deal with it. Ps if this message post twice we have no idea why maybe out computer has a sticky enter key?
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Absolutely! We recognize that 4-way 'sparks' are actually pretty uncommon. Having said that, we do keep our antennae out for each other's feelings and if it's just going to cause too much drama, we'd give it a pass. We're both adults and capable of making our own decisions based on our agreed ground rules.
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No way in hell!!!! We had a couple that was hitting on MRs Naughty the other night at the club. They were just interested in her. We explained that we only play together and if the husband was interested in MFM (the wife did not play with other men at all) then we would be cool. He said that might work and walked off. Well later they both approached her again while i was talking to others and tried to convince her to go with them. OOOOOOOOOOPOPPsss wrong move MFers now they know nothing will ever happen as they showed us great disrespect with that bonehead move. Didnt hurt my feelings one bit eithier. I hate pushy people
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In our opinion -- if there isn't 4-way compatibility, things don't work well. We each have veto power. E.G., If she thinks the gal is a psycho or I think the guy is a jerk, we don't go any further.
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There is no such thing as let or don't let in this relationship, we're not children, we're adults.
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good learning sweet! ;) lol
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Carrie, That's why I felt the word let was a little strong.
in order for me to lit my wife do something would indicate ownership and control and I learned about 20yrs ago the i don't really control anything. |
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