Valover, I understand your concerns, but I have to agree with joey and rings.. Unless you are in a closed group of friends you really don't know who your last partner was with prior to being with you. No matter how they have themselves listed.... Consider this brain teaser, the straight couple that you were with last weekend was with a another straight couple the weekend before and that other couple was with a bi couple the weekend before that.. So in essence, within a months time, you had indirectly slept with that bi couple that you refused to be with in the first place. I have had a few couples that are listed as straight/straight contact me that want a bi guy to play with. So just because they 'say' they are straight, you never really know..

I think the question should be "Do you swing with bi men who are honest?" 9 out of 10 emails we get on here as a bi couple LOOKING for bi friendly men are from men or couples listed as straight but email us for bi play. We honestly thought that bi men were in the minority on these sites but have found the opposite to be true. So much so that we are starting to question if real 100% straight men exist. If we click on "whos online" showing the profiles in our area, almost every male and probably 75% of the couples who are active on here in our area have emailed us. Right off the bat we dont like guys who list as straight because we feel that their very first conversation with us is them having to talk out of a lie. We used to exclude them totally because of their profile. But reading here we understand why they do it now. Dont agree with it but understand it. A guy could be taking it in the ass twice a day somewhere else, if he lists as straight here, he can get action. Even though he is engaging in higher risk activity in real life. A guy who posts as bi, who may only share a little oral with the woman, which poses no more risk than if he were straight. (The woman is performing oral too, its no different) Some people will look at him as a bag of disease and exclude him. To blanket bi guys as more risk is just not true without knowing more of their activitiy. Oral sex is considered a very low or no risk HIV activity. Who is riskier? A guy who has some incidental oral with another guy while his wife is doing the same thing? Or a guy who plays bareback with tons of women?>

Thanks, I will get that changed...

Blue eyes, welcome to the forums. You have a great looking profile; very nicely written. Although, you might consider changing MMF to MFM (some people infer male-male contact from MMF).

We have posted on our profile that Bi-Guys will not be considered. Yet, in spite of that we regularly get e-mails from guys who are Bi or have page links to Bi Groups ect or when asked, even though they indicate in their profile that they are straight, admit that they are Bi or Bi Curious. For us it's a deal breaker. It is the choice / lifestyle they made and it is the choice we made and it's not a subject that is up for negotiations either. One recently said it was our loss lol...

As long as he understands and respects that I am not bi, I don't really see any problem with if.

We are a straight couple who don't mind bi couples so long as they respect the fact that we only straight play.

We've got no problem with it at all.

When swinging with a male friend as a couple we prefer straight males.

We don't find it to be a problem as long as our boundaries are respected. Most can do that.