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TOPIC: Would you swap wives for the weekend
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We would and have done so (just for 1 day/evening not an entire weekend). They were/are very good friends of ours. Not for everyone but we'd have no problem with this fantasy with the right couple.

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I agree with the last posts. Although we are open to the idea, we have never done this in practice. Number one, we are in this to experience everything together. We aren't in it to date other people. Never say never I suppose. Swapping for the weekend would be out though. One "rule" so to speak that Jay and I have agreed to never bend on is the cuddling rule. I'll screw you, look into your eyes, kiss you etc. etc. and etc. lol. But I will not lay in bed after having sex with you cuddling or anything of the sort. That is a deep intimacy that in our minds is reserved only for between Jay and I, and we and our children. Minus the sex part of course LOL! You know what I mean. To me the act of lying next to someone in the quiet just cuddling and chatting is more intimate in a sense than the act of sex itself.

So if were to EVER consider a weekend (which I absolutely doubt, I'm not holding my breath) it would be separate rooms.

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Nope. Not for us.

Karen is my best friend and lover. I don't want to wake up to anyone but her. The actual thought of falling asleep with another woman doesn't even appeal to me, I have to much nite time weirdness for them to understand.

Even when i was single i didn't let women spend the night.

We got out we party and play and then it's home for us. The lifestyle for us is strictly foreplay, we want to get home as fast as we can after playtime.... that's when our best sex happens....

But if it's your fantasy.... good luck to you with it i hope you find what you're looking for.

Lake Worth FL
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I can't imagine why you'd want to.

PJ

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Hi my huband and I talk about fantasies like this quite a bit. It sounds like a blast. But the reality is finding a couple where all four hit it off, everyone is comfortable with each other, and all parties are interested is very difficult. Heck its hard to find a couple you get along with that well for just the evening sometimes. LOL Just my opinion Tammy

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we have stayed overnite with friends & switched mates in bed for the entire nite, him with her, me with her hubby. But this is a cpl that we are best friends with, go everywhere together, vacations, cruises, camping, etc....no one else would we ever consider doing that with. As for a whole weekend, I'd have to say no to that, (not even with above mentioned couple)... it would take all the excitement out of it. We definitely prefer to be together when we go to bed for the nite.. relive the previous fun that we had with others, over & over again!!

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We have swapped for the weekend, skiing trip. Was fun, but nicer to hit the bed w/ your own spouse after.

Princeton NJ
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With the right couple, yeah, we would. Both of us would have to be very attracted to the other of the opposite sex.

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I agree with Valovers. No way! It's the sex we are after.....spending a weekend with someone else actually sounds boring to me. Give me the sex and then let me go home with my husband, who is my best friend and lover.

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No way. Swinging is great fun, but my wife is my best friend, companion, and best lover.

Swing for sex. Then it's home together for us.

Jim

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