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TOPIC: When one is on a break
Created by: luvers4friends
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Are there any couples out there who've had on of the two of you want or need to take a break...but is fine with the other still having fun? To be even more specific, has anyone had their female take a break, but insist that the male half try to have some fun on his own? Doesn't seem like many couples are looking for a married man who's free to play, nor are there any single women who want a nice, safe, sane married guy for friendship and sexual fun.

In these days and times, you'd think there'd be nearly any scenario one would think of...but I think WE'RE the "unicorns!" LOL

Would love to hear some chatter on this...

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we would go threw this often. Mainly the Ms. When It happens I feel its for both of us. SMH

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We had a situation a few years ago when the wife of a couple we were friends with needed to take a break. The husband continued to play but only with us or the female half here. It worked out fine. Later when the husband was away for a business trip the wife played with us but we knew it was OK with everyone concerned. We would not play otherwise. There are too many singles out there to get involved with cheaters.

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at our club a few years ago there was a couple who the woman had some menopause issues going on so he could play if he wanted, but she didn't. Now they are both back to playing. But she was usually at the club with him and it was well known what the situation was.

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The assumption is that any male who claims to have a 'hall pass' from his spouse is judged to be a cheating husband. We have yet to find a single 'hall pass' male with a wife who is actually willing to talk on the phone and acknowledge that he is in fact legitimate. To date, 100% of the 'hall pass' males have a wife who is never available...shopping, traveling, working, etc. Unless a profile states clearly that the wife is available for phone chats, that's the assumption that people will make...cheating husband.


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Are there any couples out there who've had on of the two of you want or need to take a break...but is fine with the other still having fun? To be even more specific, has anyone had their female take a break, but insist that the male half try to have some fun on his own? Doesn't seem like many couples are looking for a married man who's free to play, nor are there any single women who want a nice, safe, sane married guy for friendship and sexual fun.

In these days and times, you'd think there'd be nearly any scenario one would think of...but I think WE'RE the "unicorns!" LOL

Would love to hear some chatter on this...

Pearl River NY
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TOPIC: When one is on a break