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TOPIC: What do people consider real around here
Created by: wildnshy4u
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Every time we read a profile that says they want to meet a real couple they either: 1. Don't have ANY pictures 2. Only want to video play 3. Have so many restrictions they might as well play with themselves Or 4. Just want to chat forever and a day.

Real to us means chat at first to get a "feel" of the other cpl, see if they are the kind of people we could get a drink/ dinner with. Talk more over drinks/dinner and see where that leads, whether its to another vanilla meet to get more acquainted or to a bedroom, it's whatever the comfort zone is. Either way we meet FOR REAL. We aren't into long term chat dating, that's like playing a SIMS game.

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Everyone has come across those issues at some point in time, Unfortunitely, that's how it is. We learned to not let it bother us long ago. We also changed how go about meeting people. Meaning, we attend clubs and other events, it's always a drive for us as there is never anything close to us. Meeting people face to face is much easier, there is no bullshit of are they real, they don't have certs, and so on. We no longer use our profile as a way to meet people. We use the Hotdate section with great success, and the events section. As far as certs, there is several threads in the forums we have commented on. We have participated in that, we no longer give or recieve them! They are meaningless! I could go on and on as to how we came to that, but to each their own.

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We have seen so many profiles complaining that everyone is fake yet they haven't been with anyone, have no cents and when we say hey, we're a real cpl, would you like to meet over drinks and see if we click? They are like, you are too far, or (even though the profile states only cpls) we just want an extra guy/girl or any other number of things. If we aren't interested we kindly thank them for their interest and let them know we don't think we would be a good match and good luck. We don't B.S. anyone. We also know not every one will be interested in us, every one has different taste so just say so.

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I think you missed my point, Open. I've seen so many times on this site where people have accused others of being fake just because they weren't interested in meeting.

Sorry, but if we aren't interested in YOU, it doesn't mean we're fake. It means you aren't what we're looking for.

And those who think others are fake because they don't want to meet THEM are incredibly egotistical. Here's a clue. You don't turn on everyone on this or any other site. If people don't want to meet, move on. You only look childish if you get rejected and cry FAKE!!!!

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I don't agree with Valovers definition at all! The picture part yes. Just because someone is not atracted to you and does not want to fuck you, doesnt make them fake. We have heard this line before, it's a stupid way to think. Real, how we see it- You are who you say you are in your profile, pictures are of you and current. If dealing with couples, both of you are into this and know what it's about. And, if plans are made to meet, then show up! What people consider "real" will vary, it's something you will learn over time and what is important to you.

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REAL = someone who resembles the pics in their profiles and is willing to fuck them. If they don't have an attraction, then they're "fake."

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We consider anyone who shows up, REAL ;)

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Every time we read a profile that says they want to meet a real couple they either: 1. Don't have ANY pictures 2. Only want to video play 3. Have so many restrictions they might as well play with themselves Or 4. Just want to chat forever and a day.

Real to us means chat at first to get a "feel" of the other cpl, see if they are the kind of people we could get a drink/ dinner with. Talk more over drinks/dinner and see where that leads, whether its to another vanilla meet to get more acquainted or to a bedroom, it's whatever the comfort zone is. Either way we meet FOR REAL. We aren't into long term chat dating, that's like playing a SIMS game.

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